Arguments

Arguments

By The School of Life Series edited by Alain de Botton

$11.99

Publication Date: 5th May 2020

The definitive guide to arguments-and how to argue, betterSex, money, in-laws, finances, the laundry on the floor…Every couple argues. In fact, arguments-whether trivial or significant-are woven into... Read More
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The definitive guide to arguments-and how to argue, betterSex, money, in-laws, finances, the laundry on the floor…Every couple argues. In fact, arguments-whether trivial or significant-are woven into... Read More
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The definitive guide to arguments-and how to argue, better

Sex, money, in-laws, finances, the laundry on the floor…

Every couple argues. In fact, arguments-whether trivial or significant-are woven into the very fabric of romantic relationships. Most arguments stem from the disconnect between the message we want to send ("I need you to love me, know me, agree with me") and the manner in which we deliver it (with accusations, sulking, put-downs, sarcasm, even exaggerated gesticulations and forceful F-yous!),

A bad argument is nothing more than a failed attempt to communicate. By taking a close look at the most common arguments, The School of Life experts offer practical ideas on how to avoid conflict and improve communication between partners. This book teaches us why arguments happen, what their symptoms are, and how to resolve them effectively.


  • A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION: within romantic relationships.
  • THE 20 MOST COMMON ARGUMENTS: and how to use them as a catalyst for growth.
  • PART OF THE SCHOOL OF LIFE'S LOVE SERIES: focusing on the joys and sorrows of relationships.

Details
  • Price: $11.99
  • Pages: 160
  • Carton Quantity: 10
  • Publisher: The School of Life
  • Imprint: The School of Life
  • Series: The School of Life Love Series
  • Publication Date: 5th May 2020
  • Trim Size: 4.31 x 6.13 in
  • ISBN: 9781912891115
  • Format: Hardcover
  • BISACs:
    FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Anger (see also SELF-HELP / Self-Management / Anger Management)
    FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Marriage & Long Term Relationships
    PSYCHOLOGY / Interpersonal Relations
Author Bio

The School of Life is a global organization helping people lead more fulfilled lives. Through our range of books, gifts and stationery we aim to prompt more thoughtful natures and help everyone to find fulfillment.


The School of Life is a resource for exploring self-knowledge, relationships, work, socializing, finding calm, and enjoying culture through content, community, and conversation. You can find us online, in stores and in welcoming spaces around the world offering classes, events, and one-to-one therapy sessions.


The School of Life is a rapidly growing global brand, with over 7 million YouTube subscribers, 389,000 Facebook followers, 174,000 Instagram followers and 166,000 Twitter followers.


The School of Life Press brings together the thinking and ideas of the School of Life creative team under the direction of series editor, Alain de Botton. Their books share a coherent, curated message that speaks with one voice: calm, reassuring, and sane.

Table of Contents

Introduction

A brief history of arguments

Types of arguments

One: The Interminable Argument

Two: The Domestic Argument

Three: The Defensive Argument

Four: The Spoiling Argument

Five: The Pathologizing Argument

Six: The Escalation Argument

Seven: The Eve-of-Journey Argument

Eight: The Absentee Argument

Nine: The Identity Argument

Ten: The Argument of Normality

Eleven: The Parental Resemblance Argument

Twelve: The Argument from Excessive Logic

Thirteen: The Attention-Seeking Argument

Fourteen: The Paraphrase Argument

Fifteen: The Argument in Paradise

Sixteen: The Sulk Argument

Seventeen: The Crush Argument

Eighteen: The Lost Item Argument

Nineteen: The Argument from Guilt

Twenty: The No-sex argument

Conclusion: Towards less bitter arguments

The definitive guide to arguments-and how to argue, better

Sex, money, in-laws, finances, the laundry on the floor…

Every couple argues. In fact, arguments-whether trivial or significant-are woven into the very fabric of romantic relationships. Most arguments stem from the disconnect between the message we want to send ("I need you to love me, know me, agree with me") and the manner in which we deliver it (with accusations, sulking, put-downs, sarcasm, even exaggerated gesticulations and forceful F-yous!),

A bad argument is nothing more than a failed attempt to communicate. By taking a close look at the most common arguments, The School of Life experts offer practical ideas on how to avoid conflict and improve communication between partners. This book teaches us why arguments happen, what their symptoms are, and how to resolve them effectively.


  • A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION: within romantic relationships.
  • THE 20 MOST COMMON ARGUMENTS: and how to use them as a catalyst for growth.
  • PART OF THE SCHOOL OF LIFE'S LOVE SERIES: focusing on the joys and sorrows of relationships.

  • Price: $11.99
  • Pages: 160
  • Carton Quantity: 10
  • Publisher: The School of Life
  • Imprint: The School of Life
  • Series: The School of Life Love Series
  • Publication Date: 5th May 2020
  • Trim Size: 4.31 x 6.13 in
  • ISBN: 9781912891115
  • Format: Hardcover
  • BISACs:
    FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Anger (see also SELF-HELP / Self-Management / Anger Management)
    FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Marriage & Long Term Relationships
    PSYCHOLOGY / Interpersonal Relations

The School of Life is a global organization helping people lead more fulfilled lives. Through our range of books, gifts and stationery we aim to prompt more thoughtful natures and help everyone to find fulfillment.


The School of Life is a resource for exploring self-knowledge, relationships, work, socializing, finding calm, and enjoying culture through content, community, and conversation. You can find us online, in stores and in welcoming spaces around the world offering classes, events, and one-to-one therapy sessions.


The School of Life is a rapidly growing global brand, with over 7 million YouTube subscribers, 389,000 Facebook followers, 174,000 Instagram followers and 166,000 Twitter followers.


The School of Life Press brings together the thinking and ideas of the School of Life creative team under the direction of series editor, Alain de Botton. Their books share a coherent, curated message that speaks with one voice: calm, reassuring, and sane.

Introduction

A brief history of arguments

Types of arguments

One: The Interminable Argument

Two: The Domestic Argument

Three: The Defensive Argument

Four: The Spoiling Argument

Five: The Pathologizing Argument

Six: The Escalation Argument

Seven: The Eve-of-Journey Argument

Eight: The Absentee Argument

Nine: The Identity Argument

Ten: The Argument of Normality

Eleven: The Parental Resemblance Argument

Twelve: The Argument from Excessive Logic

Thirteen: The Attention-Seeking Argument

Fourteen: The Paraphrase Argument

Fifteen: The Argument in Paradise

Sixteen: The Sulk Argument

Seventeen: The Crush Argument

Eighteen: The Lost Item Argument

Nineteen: The Argument from Guilt

Twenty: The No-sex argument

Conclusion: Towards less bitter arguments