Learn about the unconscious survival systems developed in childhood to protect ourselves. Ditta M. Oliker shows us how to recognize and dismantle these systems now that they have outlived their usefulness and how to achieve personal fulfillment in the present.
Ditta M. Oliker, PhD, is a founding member of Los Angeles' Mark Taper Forum. Her PhD in clinical psychology is from CSPP, Los Angeles, and she has been in private practice for more than thirty years. She is a frequent lecturer at universities and mental health facilities.
- Price: $16.95
- Pages: 288
- Carton Quantity: 24
- Publisher: Central Recovery Press, LLC
- Imprint: Central Recovery Press
- Publication Date: 9th October 2012
- Trim Size: 6 x 9 in
- ISBN: 9781936290956
- Format: Paperback
- BISACs:
HEALTH & FITNESS / Healing
FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / General
PSYCHOLOGY / Psychopathology / General
SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / Success
The Beginning of My Personal Journey
PART ONE:
The Opponent Within and How It Came To Be You
Chapter One: Unhappily Ever After
An Introduction
Three Versions of a Fairy Tale
Snow White: The Original
Snow White: A Tale of Reaction
Snow White: A Tale of Survival
Chapter Two: Happily Ever After
The Need to be Ugly: Beth
Chapter Three: Understanding Your "Need To"
The Evolution of Your Survival System
Explicit/Implicit Knowing and Mirror Neurons
The Power of Attachment
"Whose Need Got Met"
How Children Understand Their World
Developing A New Approach
Chapter Four: Beginning to Change the Opponent
Points to Make: Actions to Take
PART TWO:
The Three Basic Elements of a Survival System
Individuality
The Environment of Your Childhood
The Interaction
Chapter Five: His Individuality
The Need to Be Second Banana: Mark
Chapter Six: Understanding Individuality
Chapter Seven: Recognizing Your Uniqueness
Points to Make: Actions to Take
Chapter Eight: Environmental Demands of Childhood
Chapter Nine: Parents' Belief As To The Nature of The World
The Need to Be Silent: James
Chapter Ten: Parents' Belief As To The Nature of Parenting
The Need to Stay Untouched: Len
Chapter Eleven: Changing the Effects of Parents' Beliefs
Points to Make: Actions to Take
Chapter Twelve: Family Secrets
The Need to Be Stupid: Diane
Chapter Thirteen: Family Myths
The Need to Be Responsible: Jackie
Chapter Fourteen: Family Power
The Need to Not Decide: Emily
Chapter Fifteen: Changing the Effects of Secrets, Myths and Power
Points to Make: Actions to Take
Chapter Sixteen: A Poorness of Fit
The Need to Not Feel: Peter
Chapter Seventeen: The Interaction
Chapter Eighteen: Fixing the Fit
Points to Make: Actions to Take
PART THREE:
Breaking Free from a Survival System
Chapter Nineteen: The Life You Save May Be Your Own
Nine Steps to the Light Side of the Moon
Change Starts Here, Change Starts Now
Bibliography
About the Author
Index
Learn about the unconscious survival systems developed in childhood to protect ourselves. Ditta M. Oliker shows us how to recognize and dismantle these systems now that they have outlived their usefulness and how to achieve personal fulfillment in the present.
Ditta M. Oliker, PhD, is a founding member of Los Angeles' Mark Taper Forum. Her PhD in clinical psychology is from CSPP, Los Angeles, and she has been in private practice for more than thirty years. She is a frequent lecturer at universities and mental health facilities.
- Price: $16.95
- Pages: 288
- Carton Quantity: 24
- Publisher: Central Recovery Press, LLC
- Imprint: Central Recovery Press
- Publication Date: 9th October 2012
- Trim Size: 6 x 9 in
- ISBN: 9781936290956
- Format: Paperback
- BISACs:
HEALTH & FITNESS / Healing
FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / General
PSYCHOLOGY / Psychopathology / General
SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / Success
The Beginning of My Personal Journey
PART ONE:
The Opponent Within and How It Came To Be You
Chapter One: Unhappily Ever After
An Introduction
Three Versions of a Fairy Tale
Snow White: The Original
Snow White: A Tale of Reaction
Snow White: A Tale of Survival
Chapter Two: Happily Ever After
The Need to be Ugly: Beth
Chapter Three: Understanding Your "Need To"
The Evolution of Your Survival System
Explicit/Implicit Knowing and Mirror Neurons
The Power of Attachment
"Whose Need Got Met"
How Children Understand Their World
Developing A New Approach
Chapter Four: Beginning to Change the Opponent
Points to Make: Actions to Take
PART TWO:
The Three Basic Elements of a Survival System
Individuality
The Environment of Your Childhood
The Interaction
Chapter Five: His Individuality
The Need to Be Second Banana: Mark
Chapter Six: Understanding Individuality
Chapter Seven: Recognizing Your Uniqueness
Points to Make: Actions to Take
Chapter Eight: Environmental Demands of Childhood
Chapter Nine: Parents' Belief As To The Nature of The World
The Need to Be Silent: James
Chapter Ten: Parents' Belief As To The Nature of Parenting
The Need to Stay Untouched: Len
Chapter Eleven: Changing the Effects of Parents' Beliefs
Points to Make: Actions to Take
Chapter Twelve: Family Secrets
The Need to Be Stupid: Diane
Chapter Thirteen: Family Myths
The Need to Be Responsible: Jackie
Chapter Fourteen: Family Power
The Need to Not Decide: Emily
Chapter Fifteen: Changing the Effects of Secrets, Myths and Power
Points to Make: Actions to Take
Chapter Sixteen: A Poorness of Fit
The Need to Not Feel: Peter
Chapter Seventeen: The Interaction
Chapter Eighteen: Fixing the Fit
Points to Make: Actions to Take
PART THREE:
Breaking Free from a Survival System
Chapter Nineteen: The Life You Save May Be Your Own
Nine Steps to the Light Side of the Moon
Change Starts Here, Change Starts Now
Bibliography
About the Author
Index