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Recounting the author’s journey through a minefield based on his own denial, Boys Don’t Tell takes a subjective look back at a life distorted by the effects of childhood sexual abuse and offers insight on why victims find it so difficult to “just get over it and move on.” Through the eyes and emotions of the author, this book reveals his abuse as a teenager by a trusted minister and mentor, then recounts years of therapy, a formal complaint to The Church, and a lawsuit settled in mediation.
Excruciatingly honest, Boys Don’t Tell creates an openness that can facilitate healing in others giving a voice to an estimated 20 million male survivors, and offers loved ones, professionals, church and organizational leaders the opportunity to understand the impact of child sexual abuse.
As one reader put it, “You have been through so much, conquered so much, lost so much, and still have far to go. I was moved to tears. At times I felt I was eavesdropping. This is a tragic story filled with hope for justice and healing.”
Randy Ellison made a living in sales and marketing for most of his adult life. Four years ago, after 40 years of denial, he opened the memories of child sexual abuse (CSA) by his minister. He has since spoken on the issues surrounding CSA, as well as his own recovery and healing, at rallies, fundraisers, and a wide variety of churches and public gatherings. Randy also has testified before the Oregon State Legislature and authored many articles on child abuse. He now works as a victim and survivor advocate with any opportunity that presents itself.