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Brotherhood is a Constant Possibility
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22 September 2026

A deeply personal, provocative portrait of how race, culture and sexuality intersect to reshape what it means to be an Asian man in North America today.
What does it mean to be an Asian man in North America? In this timely and insightful memoir, Ryan Cho unpacks ideas about masculinity and Asian men in a world of stereotypes and social expectations. Drawing from his own experiences and interviews with other Asian men and nonbinary people, Cho explores how culture, sexuality and race combine to influence identity. Along the way, he meets people redefining what masculinity means to them and discusses what we can do to steward a version of masculinity that is inclusive, progressive and authentic.
Candid, challenging and personal, Brotherhood is a Constant Possibility invites readers to question the roles Asian men have been “allowed” to play and to imagine broader and more nuanced ways of thinking about masculinity and men.
Foreword
Preface
Part I. The Landscape
Chapter 1. Bamboo Among the Pines
Chapter 2. Men’s Vulnerability and Community
Chapter 3. Diversity Can Be a Strength
Part II. Lost
Chapter 4. In Between
Chapter 5. Conditional Belonging
Chapter 6. Work and Achievement
Chapter 7. Distress and Depression
Part III. Found
Chapter 8. Healing and Post-Traumatic Growth
Chapter 9. Rethinking Our Assumptions About Sex, Relationships and Attraction
Chapter 10. Asian Masculine Queer and Trans Identities
Chapter 11. Fatherhood and Family
Chapter 12. Representation and Role Models
Chapter 13. Imagining Something Different
Acknowledgements
References
Asian Fatherhood Interview Questions
Asian Masculine Queer and Trans Interview Questions
Index