The acronym DILF stands for “Daddy, I’d like to fuck”, and represents a gay subculture with more than a few online adherents. In his new guidebook, Axel Neustädter takes a closer look at all the silver, muscle and sugar daddies: what are they like; where can they be found; will you also become one? And what about the young men who like daddies: what makes them tick? Neustädter shows how the daddy ideal is both part of and at odds with the prevailing gay culture. Where ageism ends, daddy love begins. This book shines a light on a flourishing, if partially hidden, subculture and shows the way to overcoming prejudices. Neustädter charts the colorful cosmos of confident daddies and twinks, wolves and otters, chicken queens and sons.