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How to Be Kind
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07 October 2025

How to Be Kind follows Buttercup the Bee through activities and strategies to help children learn to be kind to themselves and others. Each section of the book focuses on completing concrete activities and learning specific skills to achieve the goal of improving empathy, social skills, and understanding. Children are encouraged to complete these workbook activities with a parent, caregiver, therapist, or teacher.
In a world full of different paths, leading with kindness will guide children to choose empathy over apathy, compassion over callousness, and love over hate. How to be Kind: Making the World a Better Place through Empathy and Compassion is a workbook that walks children through a series of activities and strategies to develop the tools needed to improve social skills, resolve conflicts, make good decisions, and boost their emotional intelligence. Our children rely on us as a resource and a guide to become mindful, caring, and kind, and this workbook will help you navigate your way through heart-warming lessons and tough conversations, creating a safe space for you and your child to grow.
Looking to help a child blossom into a kind and caring individual? Research shows that kindness can boost a child's well-being, emotional intelligence, and social competence, leading to a fulfilling life.
As mental health challenges continue to plague our young people, this book provides parents, teachers, therapists, and caregivers with activities and strategies to build social skills and emotional intelligence, giving children the tools needed to improve their self-worth and relationships with others. Follow Buttercup the Bee to skill-building lessons in self-care, manners, meditations, and listening to others.
While this workbook involves social skills training and provides concrete activities to improve kindness and empathy for children diagnosed with autism, it is designed to work for any child from kindergarten through fifth grade.
How to be kind is a question we all ask ourselves and those of us who work or have kids often find this to be a harder question to answer. This book gives concrete ideas and worksheets to help kids understand kindness and why it matters. I think this book would be helpful for most parents to use and gain some insight into how their kids are feeling about kindness. — Danielle M., Librarian
Why is it Important to Be Kind?
Introduction to the Be Kind Strategies
Strategy 1: Take Care of Myself
Strategy 2: Learn About My Emotions
Strategy 3: Remember When Others Were Kind to Me
Strategy 4: Meditate and Be Mindful
Strategy 5: Stay Calm
Strategy 6: Use Manners
Strategy 7: Slow Down and Pay Attention
Strategy 8: Listen and Reflect
Strategy 9: Compliment Others
Strategy 10: Learn About Others
Strategy 11: Spend Time with Different People
Strategy 12: Volunteer
Strategy 13: Get Involved in My Community
Strategy 14: “When They Go Low, I Go High”
Strategy 15: Help Others
Strategy 16: Talk Before Posting
Strategy 17: Put Myself in Another Person’s Shoes
Strategy 18: Stand Up for Others
Strategy 19: Share
Strategy 20: Be Forgiving and Ask for Forgiveness
How Being Kind Has Affected Me
My Own Be Kind Strategies The End of this Book is Just the Beginning of Being Kind