Wickham is a natural leader who wants to help others. As a consultant, he has had an opportunity to help numerous people in numerous companies all across our nation. On his own time he has participated as a tutor to many children and serves his community volunteering as a mentor and facilitator for various organizations. It is this side of Wickham's persona that inspired and motivated him to write this book. Wickham saw a need and wrote this book to help couples engaging in a new marriage to build strong relationships based on honest communication. There is a plethora of books based on love. There are hundreds of books based on rebuilding marriages that are failing. This book was written to prevent marriages from suffering common, avoidable pitfalls by encouraging honest discussion on a variety of subject matters. It was also written to highlight common topics that many, if not most, newlyweds face - but seldom discuss.