Family & Relationships

Winner of the 2024 Eileen Basker Memorial Prize from the Society for Medical Anthropology

How embryo adoption advances the Christian Right’s political goals for creating a Christian nation

In 1997, a group of white pro-life evangelical Christians in the United States created the nation’s first embryo adoption program to “save” the thousands of frozen human embryos remaining from assisted reproduction procedures, which they contend are unborn children. While a small part of US fertility services, embryo adoption has played an outsized role in conservative politics, from high-profile battles over public investment in human embryonic stem cell research to the overturning of Roe v. Wade. Based on six years of ethnographic research with embryo adoption staff and participants, Risa Cromer uncovers how embryo adoption advances ambitious political goals for expanding the influence of conservative Christian values and power.

Conceiving Christian America is the first book on embryo adoption tracing how this powerful social movement draws on white saviorist tropes in their aims to reconceive personhood, with drastic consequences for reproductive rights and justice. Documenting the practices, narratives, and beliefs that move embryos from freezers to uteruses, this book wields anthropological wariness as a tool for confronting the multiple tactics of the Christian Right. Timely and provocative, Conceiving Christian America presents a bold and nuanced examination of a family-making process focused on conceiving a Christian nation.

Praising God in the storm?

Faced with carrying a child who was ‘not compatible with life’, that was just one of the many challenges Cami faced as she walked her precious child home to Heaven. In Walking Her Home, readers will hear first-hand about the pregnancy, life, and death of her daughter as well as how God sustained their marriage and family when it was challenged.

A compelling examination of the social and legal experiences of lesbian, bisexual, and queer stepparent families

Lesbian, bisexual, and queer families formed after the dissolution of a marriage face a range of obstacles. In Queer Stepfamilies, Katie L. Acosta offers a wealth of insight into their complex experiences as they negotiate parenting among multiple parents and family-building in a world not designed to meet their needs. Drawing on in-depth interviews, Acosta follows the journeys of more than forty families as they navigate a legal and social landscape that fails to recognize their existence.

Acosta contextualizes the legal realities of LGBTQ stepparent families and considers the actions these parents take to protect their families in the absence of comprehensive policies or laws geared to meet their needs. Queer Stepfamilies reveals the obstacles these families face in family courts during divorce proceedings and custody cases, and highlights their distrust of courts when it comes to acting in their children’s best interests, especially in the event of an origin parent’s death.

As LGBTQ families continue to make social and legal strides in acceptance and recognition, this important book shows how queer stepparents find ways to make their unconventional families work, despite the many social and legal obstacles they encounter. Acosta provides a fresh perspective, broadening our understanding about families in the twenty-first century.

A gritty, down-to-earth guide for real-life couples 

Conflict is a natural part of any intimate relationship. Yet most couples either avoid it or try to smooth over their differences. This often results in at least one partner compromising their integrity—and stunting their own growth.

Monsters in Love challenges the idea that conflict between partners is unhealthy or something to avoid. Instead, it encourages both people to stand by what they need and who they are—but to do so with compassion rather than competitiveness or vengefulness. 

This book is about the reality of committed, intimate relationships, which are designed to inspire both people to grow up. It challenges some common misperceptions about what makes for a successful partnership. It also rocks the boat of psychotherapy, calling out therapists who don't bring their best to their clients. 

Instead of comforting fantasies or false promises, Monsters in Love offers you and your partner a chance to make your relationship—and your lives—much bigger and more emergent. 

Answers the question: Why are women freezing their eggs?

Why are women freezing their eggs in record numbers? Motherhood on Ice explores this question by drawing on the stories of more than 150 women who pursued fertility preservation technology. Moving between narratives of pain and empowerment, these nuanced personal stories reveal the complexity of women’s lives as they struggle to preserve and extend their fertility.

Contrary to popular belief, egg freezing is rarely about women postponing fertility for the sake of their careers. Rather, the most-educated women are increasingly forced to delay childbearing because they face a mating gap—a lack of eligible, educated, equal partners ready for marriage and parenthood. For these women, egg freezing is a reproductive backstop, a technological attempt to bridge the gap while waiting for the right partner. But it is not an easy choice for most. Their stories reveal the extent to which it is logistically complicated, physically taxing, financially demanding, emotionally draining, and uncertain in its effects.

In this powerful book, women share their reflections on their clinical encounters, as well as the immense hopes and investments they place in this high-tech fertility preservation strategy. Race, religion, and the role of men in the lives of single women pursuing this technology are also explored. A distinctly human portrait of an understudied and rapidly growing population, Motherhood on Ice examines what is at stake for women who take comfort in their frozen eggs while embarking on their quests for partnership, pregnancy, and parenting.

An essential guide for navigating the challenges of fatherhood while building a foundation of faith, love, and values in your children.

Becoming a father is one of life's most profound joys and solemn duties. The path ahead will be filled with questions and self-doubt—am I ready for this? How do I nurture faith and values? Can I still pursue my dreams? What if I mess up? In The Spirit of Fatherhood, Larry Hagner provides fellow dads the wisdom and tools to navigate one of life's most epic and awe-inspiring adventures.

With insight forged from biblical study and over a decade of counseling experience, Hagner addresses nearly every aspect of engaged fatherhood. Discover guidance on building a warm, Godly home where children feel safe to grow. Learn how to correct with patience and grace. Find tips on instilling values that will serve your children for life. Hagner knows the struggles inherent to parenting and meets them with empathy, encouragement and practical solutions. While portraying this sacred calling, the founder of "The Dad Edge," the #1 podcast about fatherhood on Apple Podcasts, makes his lessons relatable through vulnerable stories, humorous anecdotes, and refreshing honesty. You'll come away feeling empowered, equipped and deeply connected.

Whether you're counting down to your first child or already have a full house, this book offers inspiration to deepen your faith and leadership. It's the perfect gift for dads aiming to ground their families in timeless wisdom and everlasting love.

Honorable Mention, 2020 Stirling Prize for Best Published Work in Psychological Anthropology, given by the Society for Psychological Anthropology

Honorable Mention, New Millennium Book Award, given by the Society for Medical Anthropology

How youth on the autism spectrum negotiate the contested meanings of neurodiversity

Autism is a deeply contested condition. To some, it is a devastating invader, harming children and isolating them. To others, it is an asset and a distinctive aspect of an individual’s identity. How do young people on the spectrum make sense of this conflict, in the context of their own developing identity?

While most of the research on Asperger’s and related autism conditions has been conducted with individuals or in settings in which people on the spectrum are in the minority, this book draws on two years of ethnographic work in communities that bring people with Asperger’s and related conditions together. It can thus begin to explore a form of autistic culture, through attending to how those on the spectrum make sense of their conditions through shared social practices.

Elizabeth Fein brings her many years of experience in both clinical psychology and psychological anthropology to analyze the connection between neuropsychological difference and culture. She argues that current medical models, which espouse a limited definition, are ill equipped to deal with the challenges of discussing autism-related conditions. Consequently, youths on the autism spectrum reach beyond medicine for their stories of difference and disorder, drawing instead on shared mythologies from popular culture and speculative fiction to conceptualize their experience of changing personhood.

In moving and persuasive prose, Living on the Spectrum illustrates that young people use these stories to pioneer more inclusive understandings of what makes us who we are.

Avoid Popping Under Pressure

Pressure management is the key to effective leadership, conflict resolution, and staying composed when life feels like it’s stretching you to the limit. In How to Untie a Balloon, former hostage negotiator and founder of Conflictish® Ryan Dunlap provides practical strategies for managing stress, mastering conflict management, and building emotional resilience.

Dunlap reveals the profound effects of pressure on our decision-making, relationships, and emotional well-being. Through the vivid metaphor of a balloon, he illustrates how unmanaged stress and unresolved conflict can lead to self-sabotage. By introducing the F.I.R.S.T. Steps framework—Feelings, Interests, Relationships, Situation, and Toll—Dunlap delivers a proven system for mastering negotiation, enhancing communication skills, and achieving breakthrough results in both personal and professional arenas.

Experience immediate and lasting benefits, including the ability to remain composed during difficult conversations, strengthen relationship communication, and approach every negotiation with clarity and confidence. Whether you are navigating business deals, couples communication, or leadership challenges, these strategies empower you to transform pressure into opportunity.

Through each step of the F.I.R.S.T. Steps framework, you’ll learn how to:

• Recognize and regulate your emotions to maintain respect, influence, and composure in negotiation and conflict resolution.
• Distinguish between surface frustrations and underlying priorities, sharpening your conversation skills for meaningful dialogue.
• Foster relationship communication and prevent conflicts from escalating, whether in couples communication or organizational settings.
• Approach high-pressure scenarios with assurance, mastering difficult conversations and leadership communication.
• Deconstruct complex conflicts into manageable elements for strategic negotiation and problem-solving.
• Integrate real-world tactics from a seasoned negotiator to build emotional intelligence and resilience in response to human emotions.

With its blend of compelling real-life stories, expert frameworks, and actionable advice, How to Untie a Balloon is the definitive resource for anyone committed to personal growth, effective negotiation, and lasting conflict resolution.

If you have valued works such as The Anatomy of Peace, Getting to Yes, or The Next Conversation, this book will be an indispensable addition to your collection.

"Linda-Marie Barrett offers a generous, intelligent, and deeply loving guide to building spaces where real people can gather for real conversation about real topics. Drawing upon her experience as a bookseller and her own story of how bringing women together into literary salons elevated her own life from anxiety and disconnection to vibrancy and joy, Barrett has written more than a simple how-to book here; she has delivered a call to reclaim the joy of presence, dialogue, and the transformative power of story." —Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love

A practical and personal exploration of the transformative power of salons–in many cases, a next-level evolution of a book club—with hosting advice tailored for different goals, budgets, and personalities. 

Salons are enjoying a renaissance worldwide. More structured than a hangout or casual dinner party, and oftentimes an evolution of a successful book club, salons can spark lively discussions and help develop a joyful, intentional community. Blending focused and informed advice with heartfelt reflection, book industry professional Linda-Marie Barrett shares her experience hosting salons at her home—the lessons learned as well as the life-changing connections she discovered—and guides readers through the whats, whys, and hows of creating their own salons.
Learn how to cultivate deep conversations and authentic connection using Barrett’s clear guidelines and real-life examples, including helpful suggestions for handling even challenging scenarios. Readers will also hear directly from members of Linda-Marie’s Black Swan Salon, who share their perspectives along with advice for how to build a better salon. As a bonus, this book includes 14 salon starter kits, each on a different theme, to help readers host with confidence.

Don’t Pull Your Sister’s Hair is the story of Sam Flood Jr.—the boy who didn’t speak until he was five has become a man who wants to tell stories for a living.

Sam Flood was born on January 1, 1994, two weeks late. Walking and running at ten months, he didn’t speak until age five. “From the outset, Sam seemed to have his own idea for how life should be,” writes his father in the opening chapter, in which Sam pieces together his memories with stories told by his family to describe what it was like for Sam to express himself, from pulling his sister Eliza’s hair to wandering to Häagen-Dazs at age three.

Sam’s inability to speak concerned his parents, who consulted doctors to figure out what was wrong. One specialist said Sam would never graduate from high school, let alone go to college. Turning to writing, reading, and his own sense of humor to cope with constant bullying for his differences, Sam proved them wrong, earning a BA from Mitchell College in Connecticut.

Any family can find hope in Sam’s story. Anyone who feels different, misunderstood, bullied, or unfairly treated in life can find light in the way Sam charted his course. This is a story of neurodiversity, but it’s not just for people dealing with ADHD, autism, or any other diagnostic label, because everyone has unique ways of thinking, processing, and behaving. 

Don’t Pull Your Sister’s Hair is about the moments where neurodiversity creates opportunity. It’s the story of what’s possible.

Let’s face it—modern life is stressful. With constant demands on your time and attention, it’s not surprising that you’ve neglected what used to be your North Star: your relationship. You might feel disconnected from each other and stuck in a cycle of go-nowhere arguments. Perhaps you miss the spark that made you excited to see one another at the end of the day. You might long for the time when the two of you were in sync on most things and could laugh at misunderstandings and miscommunications.

Fire It Up is the solution to relationships that are struggling, feeling stale, or just in need of a little extra care. Experienced couples therapist Carolyn Sharp outlines a clear four-step process to bring back the love, connection, and vitality to any marriage, with humor and authenticity. She’ll help you understand how relationships work—and why your partner does that annoying thing. Get to the heart of the problem and empower yourself with the knowledge to make lasting change in your relationship.

For the past half century, Maurice Blanchot has been an extraordinarily influential figure on the French literary and cultural scene. He is arguably the key figure after Sartre in exploring the relation between literature and philosophy.

This collection of 29 critical essays and reviews on art, politics, literature, and philosophy documents the wide range of Blanchot's interests, from the enigmatic paintings in the Lascaux caves to the atomic era. Essays are devoted to works of fiction (Louis-René des Forêts, Pierre Klossowski, Roger Laporte, Marguerite Duras), to autobiographies or testimonies (Michel Leiris, Robert Antelme, André Gorz, Franz Kafka), or to authors who are more than ever contemporary (Jean Paulhan, Albert Camus).

Several essays focus on questions of Judaism, as expressed in the works of Edmond Jabès, Emmanuel Levinas, and Martin Buber. Among the other topics covered are André Malraux's "imaginary museum," the Pléiade Encyclopedia project of Raymond Queneau, paperback publishing, the work of Claude Lévi-Strauss, Benjamin's "Task of the Translator," Marx and communism, writings on the Holocaust, and the difference between art and writing. The book concludes with an eloquent invocation to friendship on the occasion of the death of Georges Bataille.

A personal, intimate account of the extraordinary ways that today’s families are being created.

From adoption and assisted reproduction, to gay and straight parents, coupled and single, and multi-parent families, the stories in Modern Families explain how individuals make unconventional families by accessing a broad range of technological, medical and legal choices that expand our definitions of parenting and kinship. Joshua Gamson introduces us to a child with two mothers, made with one mother’s egg and the sperm of a man none of them has ever met; another born in Ethiopia, delivered by his natural grandmother to an orphanage after both his parents died in close succession, and then to the arms of his mother, who is raising him solo.

These tales are deeply personal and political. The process of forming these families involved jumping tremendous hurdles—social conventions, legal and medical institutions—with heightened intention and inventiveness, within and across multiple inequities and privileges. Yet each of these families, however they came to be, shares the same universal joys that all families share.

A companion for all those who choose to navigate the world of modern kinship, Modern Families provides a “fascinating look at the remarkable range of experiences that is broadening the very idea of family” (Booklist).

Transgender survivors of violence tell their stories

Transgender people face some of the highest rates of violence in the US and around the world, particularly within romantic relationships. In Transgressed, Xavier L. Guadalupe-Diaz offers a ground-breaking examination of intimate partner violence in the lives of transgender people.

Drawing on interviews and written accounts from transgender survivors of intimate partner violence, he sheds much-needed light on the dynamics of abuse that entrap trans partners in violent relationships. Transgressed shows how rigidly gendered discussions of violence have served to marginalize and silence stories of abuse. Ultimately, these stories of survival follow their unique journeys as they navigate—and break free—from the cycle of abuse, providing us with a better understanding of their experiences.

An emotionally compelling read, Transgressed offers new ways of understanding the complexities of intimate partner violence through the eyes of transgender survivors.

**Business Book Awards 2025 Finalist**

'This is the book I really needed when I first became a working parent!' - Kathryn Bishop, CBE

Welcome to the world of working parenthood...

• Wondering how you’ll still do your job as well as being a parent?
• Want to have a conversation about changing your working pattern but not sure how to approach it?
• Don’t really know where to start with creating a return-to-work plan?

This how-to guide is designed to help you every step of the way on your journey to becoming a working parent – from before you head off on parental leave to while you’re away and on your return. Catherine Oliver has not only been there and done that but has supported many thousands who have chosen to take on the dual roles of parent and employee.

It will also be invaluable if your partner is taking a longer period of parental leave, or if you’re a manager worried about doing or saying the wrong thing. In the past this support has only been available to employees of big corporates: now you’re holding it in your hands.

Catherine Oliver is a Diversity and Inclusion Advisor who specializes in helping organizations from start-ups to the largest listed companies support working parents and their managers. She became a parent herself during her 20-year corporate career and founded Sky’s parenting network.

'An excellent practical guide to working through the many challenges of becoming a working parent.' Colin Jones, ex-COO, Sky

'As a first-time expectant parent this book was a game-changer.' Emma McKinley, Mum-to-be & Finance Director, Haleon PLC

Raise calmer, happier, healthier children with these fun, hands-on nature activities for parents and kids to enjoy together.

Gold Winner, Nonfiction Authors Association Book Awards

Are your kids stressed? Are they feeling a bit down? Do your children—and you—need a break from screens? Nature can help. What we all suspected intuitively for generations, science has now confirmed: spending time connecting to nature is a safe, effective tool to help improve our health and happiness.

In Finding Ecohappiness, author Sandi Schwartz guides families in building regular habits of experiencing nature to reduce stress and boost mood. She explores key positive psychology tools from a nature-loving perspective. You will learn simple, practical tips for incorporating these tools—awe and gratitude, mindfulness, creative arts, outdoor play and adventure, volunteering, food, and animals—into your daily routine to help your children thrive and live a happy, balanced life.

Finding Ecohappiness will introduce you to all kinds of engaging nature activities you can do with your kids, from hiking and bike rides to visiting nature centers and science museums to volunteering outdoors to embarking on ecotourism adventures. In addition, you will discover unique nature relaxation activities like cow cuddling, animal yoga, forest bathing, float therapy, and earthing. Nature isn’t just for kids, either—doing these activities with your children will tremendously improve your own well-being, too.

A must-read for all families, Finding Ecohappiness will help you protect your children from feeling stressed and overwhelmed; manage your children’s current issues regarding stress, anxiety, and mood; and improve family togetherness.

A guided questionnaire to help understand ourselves and our romantic relationships more clearly.

Most questionnaires are happy to be a bit of fun; this one sets out to be both entertaining and, more importantly, useful – offering us nothing less than a guide to the comforting and supportive relationships we long for.

With online apps taking over the dating game, it has never been more crucial to know the rules.

Through a series of pertinent questions, it reveals our distinctive style of loving, what our strengths and weaknesses are with partners and how we might secure genuine fulfillment going forward.

As we work through the questionnaire and its accompanying essays, writing the answers in a notebook, we discover the many reasons why relationships go wrong – and how they might do so far less often in the future. The book considers the role of self-hatred, the influence of childhood, the importance of vulnerability, the appeal of unavailable people and the best way to overcome patterns of self-doubt and unhealthy attachment.

Our minds are such confusing places, even the most thoughtful among us can fail to know central things about how we behave in relationships. This questionnaire will help us to understand ourselves more clearly – and so set us free to discover the love we deserve.

52 Parenting Principles outlines simple strategies to help parents prepare their kids with important life skills for when they leave home. The 52 principles are bite-sized nuggets that parents can learn, understand, and apply weekly or as they choose. With enough theory for context, it emphasizes applications parents can make immediately. Most of the principles can be adopted to fit children of all ages. By reading 52 Parenting Principles, parents feel empowered to make changes they can master and witness relational transformation. Each principle is followed by discussion questions and action steps to help parents understand and integrate what they have learned.

Hay relaciones afectivas y personas que nos marcan con fuego, como si se enquistaran en nuestro ADN y en la esencia que nos define. Perderlas genera un vacío angustiante y devastador. ¿Cómo superar la ausencia de quien fue vital para nuestra vida amorosa?

In Changing Course—now fully revised and updated—Claudia Black extends a helping hand to anyone overcoming the complex trauma of growing up in an impaired family system.

Don't talk. Don't trust. Don't feel.

Being raised in a dysfunctional family system, whether unpredictable and chaotic or overly rigid and joyless, can set the course for chronic emotional pain in adulthood. Changing Course is a gentle, affirming guide to healing from childhood experiences of loss, abandonment, fear, and shame.

Through carefully crafted questions, charts, exercises, and real-life stories of people impacted by various types of family impairment, Dr. Black skillfully presents an interactive process of healing from childhood wounds. You will learn four essential steps you can use to let go of old hurtful beliefs and behaviors and develop new skills for both redefining self and negotiating relationships.

Modern medicine considers Autism to be an "incurable diagnosis." Warrior Mom challenges this claim, sharing one mother's journey to heal her son.

For any parent who has heard the chilling words "your child has autism," Tracy Slepcevic offers hope, inspiration, and advice to help you navigate the system, evaluate different treatment options, and heal your child’s underlying conditions.

After her son Noah had a severe regression after meeting all his milestones, Tracy spent years trying to figure out what was wrong with her little boy. Once given a diagnosis, doctors said Noah would never lead a fully functioning life, but Tracy knew this was not her son’s fate.

Refusing to give up, Tracy read dozens of books, attended autism conferences, and spent countless hours researching how to heal her child. She was determined to turn her son around from what doctor’s called an "incurable diagnosis" so that Noah could live his best life possible. Over the years, Noah made great progress with biomedical intervention and lives a fully functional life today with a bright future ahead of him.

Warrior Mom is an inspiring story of hope and an indispensable guidebook for any parent desperate to hear the truth that autism is not a hopeless diagnosis and that many underlying conditions associated with autism are treatable.

Aprende a despedirte y a llevar contigo lo verdaderamente importante.

Edición revisada y ampliada por la autora.

Todos los viajes comienzan con una maleta, y no solo la que llevas en tus manos, sino aquella en la que guardas lo que eres, lo que has vivido y lo que estás dispuesto a soltar.

En ella caben tus aprendizajes, tus deseos más profundos y tus miedos, por lo que será necesario que elijas sabiamente qué cosas y cuánto peso estás dispuesto a cargar. Aunque es cierto que todo inicio tiene un fin, si hiciste el recorrido con atención y disfrute, llegar a tu destino será solamente el comienzo de un nuevo camino.

En esta edición especial, Gaby Pérez Islas, la tanatóloga más prestigiosa de México, te invita a recorrer el viaje más fascinante de todos: el de tu propia existencia. Con su calidez y sabiduría, te ayudará a comprender que las pérdidas no son finales, sino puertas a nuevas etapas, y te enseñará que la tanatología es un elemento fundamental de tu caja de herramientas emocionales para vivir con ligereza, pero con el corazón abierto.

«Una lectura de crecimiento, que al mismo tiempo es un llamado de atención si no estás gozando tu vida, y un aplauso si has cerrado duelos y descubierto en las lecciones diarias herramientas para vivir a plenitud». Martha Debayle

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Learn to say goodbye and carry with you what truly matters.

Revised and expanded edition by the author.

Every journey begins with a suitcase—not only the one you carry in your hands, but also the one that holds who you are, what you have lived, and what you are willing to let go.

Inside it fit your lessons, your deepest desires, and your fears, which means you must wisely choose what things and how much weight you are willing to carry. Although every beginning has an end, if you made the journey with attention and joy, arriving at your destination will simply be the start of a new path.

In this special edition, Gaby Pérez Islas, Mexico’s most renowned thanatologist, invites you to embark on the most fascinating journey of all: your own existence. With warmth and wisdom, she helps you understand that losses are not endings but doors to new stages, and teaches that thanatology is a fundamental tool in your emotional toolkit to live lightly, yet with an open heart.

“A reading for growth, which at the same time is a wake-up call if you are not enjoying your life, and applause if you have closed grief and discovered in daily lessons the tools to live fully.” Martha Debayle

Looking for ways to heat up your love life? Sex in a Tent will show you how to toss aside your bed sheets and discover your wild side outside. You’ll find it’s good for your sex life—and your relationship too!

In this penetrating guide to what really goes on behind the tent flap (or under a tree, or in a canoe), author Michelle Waitzman reveals her tips from her years of experience “playing the field” in the backcountry.

Filled with illustrations, positions, games, tricks, and stories from dozens of outdoor lovers, this book will inspire you to leave your bedroom behind in favor of the orgasmic opportunities for love, sex, and adventure in the great outdoors.

“I don’t know how I ever had sex in a tent without this guide! Essential.”
—Susie Bright

“Smart and funny.”
—Rosie Fernandez, Canadian Broadcasting Corporation

Families in Transition: Parenting Gender Diverse Children, Adolescents, and Young Adults is a compilation of clinically oriented articles, research, and case material authored by mental health and medical experts, both nationally and internationally known, as well as first-person narratives written by parents and families, exploring the complexities faced by parents and caretakers attending to the needs of their children in a largely hostile world. The professional articles are positioned side by side with the voices of the parents themselves—each complementing the other—together adding up to a richly complex, original tapestry.

While most books on this subject highlight the experiences of the gender diverse child and adolescent, parents’ perspectives are placed front and center. Those raising these children and adolescents have unique struggles and personal processes as caregivers and advocates. Making complex social and medical decisions in a society that is hostile and polarized only complicates the picture. This book highlights their rarely heard voices and gives insight to therapists and physicians on how to support all members of the family, helping them grow and heal during what is often a challenging time.

Families in Transition:

-Challenges the ways we think about cultural norms and how those impact our clinical work;

-Explores a parent’s desire for their child to live authentically alongside a desire to protect them;

-Highlights how the attitudes and behaviors of extended relatives impact the gender nonconforming child and their caretakers;

-Presents a historical overview contrasting the reparative and the affirmative models of treatment;

-Illustrates how difficult treatment can be when a patient is reticent to disclose their gender identity to their parents or when parents either have little information or are in denial;

-Offers strategies on how best to advocate for a child in a school setting;

-Outlines best practices for the care of transgender youth.

This text is designed for mental health professionals—clinicians, educators, and researchers; medical providers; parents and caretakers of gender diverse children, adolescents, and young adults; and is suitable for graduate and doctoral level coursework in a range of subject areas, including gender, sexuality, and family studies.

Because of the unique and varied needs of children with autism, careful attention to their experiences in medical settings remains essential. Prescription for Success: Supporting Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders in the Medical Environment, Second Edition builds on the foundation of the original text with expanded content, additional strategies, and a restructured format designed for ease of use.

This revised edition deepens understanding of the characteristics and developmental differences of children with autism, expands on the foundational role and necessity of sensory regulation, strengthens guidance and emphasizes strategies for communicating procedural information, includes new discussion of pain management, and overviews interventions to promote engagement and collaborative care. Designed for medical professionals, families, and service providers, the book also offers practical tools, updated assessments, and real-world strategies to support positive, successful healthcare experiences for children with autism. This second edition continues to serve as a trusted resource for improving interactions, reducing stress, and promoting better outcomes for all involved.

Wish you could know on your first dining date if you’ll want a second? Want to stop wasting time with the wrong person?

There is a way. Food Talks!

Food is essential in our lives—from survival to socializing. It plays a powerful role in our relationships, and our food experiences, from childhood to adulthood, reveal truths about who we are and the people around us. Everything we hear, see, and experience through food carries meaning.

For Denise, dinners with her ex-boyfriends’ mothers turned out to be the most honest introductions she never got. Their mothers’ food whispered truths about the men she was dating.

Not only did their food speak volumes—all food experiences do.

Denise shares that every restaurant choice, kitchen habit, and family table tells a story. How someone orders. What they cook for you. Whether they share their fries or guard their plate. These aren’t small details—they’re previews of what life with them looks like.

Combining the nuances of food and dating reveals how choices and actions around food can uncover deep insights into a person’s values, personality, and relationship compatibility. More than just sustenance, food is a powerful social and emotional indicator that shapes attraction and intimacy—it tells you exactly who’s sitting across the table from you.

In the end, you’ll know whether your date’s ingredients are “Tasty” or “Not Tasty” for your plate. Whether you’re having coffee, cocktails, or a meal—in a restaurant, bar, lounge, at a family or friend’s home, or even in your own kitchen—Food Talks!

Learn from real-life anecdotes, using humor to convey practical, modern-day dating wisdom.

Denise shows you how to make your own “Recipe for Love” with the Recipe Ingredient’s Card inside—just for you.

A relationship and self-help book for both men and women.

Follow Denise’s journey on Instagram: @denisetoma

Tools to Build Great Kids is a practical, uplifting resource designed to empower parents with proven tools to build character and confidence in their children—starting in just minutes a day. Developed from over thirty years of hands-on experience, this book helps families reduce common parenting struggles by offering effective ways to communicate, set boundaries, and nurture social-emotional skills at home.

Organized with busy families in mind, this insightful resource introduces simple, game-based activities that engage kids and teens while reinforcing values like mutual respect, integrity, and honor. Parents are guided to define their family’s core values, set clear expectations, and create a home culture of encouragement and accountability.

More than just a parenting manual, Tools to Build Great Kids inspires lasting change—supporting children in developing a wise inner voice to make good choices for life. It’s a cornerstone resource from the legacy brand KIDS WHO CARE, helping families worldwide rebuild good character in humanity—one child at a time.

Todos los padres quieren que sus hijos sean felices, pero ¿cómo se consigue?

En este libro, la reconocida psicoterapeuta británica Philippa Perry nos dice qué es lo que realmente importa y qué tipo de comportamientos debemos evitar en la relación con nuestros hijos, ofreciéndonos pautas para:

• Comprender cómo nuestra propia educación puede afectar la crianza.
• Aceptar que cometemos errores y aprender qué podemos hacer al respecto.
• Romper ciclos y patrones negativos.
• Manejar nuestros propios sentimientos y los de nuestro hijo.
• Entender lo que los diferentes comportamientos comunican.

Lleno de sabios y sanos consejos, este es el libro que todos los padres querrán leer y que todos los hijos desearán que sus padres hayan leído.

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All parents want their children to be happy, but how can this be achieved?

In this book, renowned British psychotherapist Philippa Perry explains what truly matters and which types of behaviors we should avoid in our relationship with our children, offering guidelines to:

• Understand how our own upbringing can affect parenting.
• Accept that we make mistakes and learn what we can do about them.
• Break cycles and negative patterns.
• Manage our own feelings and those of our child.
• Understand what different behaviors communicate.

Filled with wise and healthy advice, this is the book every parent will want to read and every child will wish their parents had read.

La amistad es esencial para el ser humano y este libro nos da las claves para evitar la soledad, contactar mejor con los demás y conservar a nuestros amigos.

Desde su experiencia profesional y humana, Enrique Rojas nos enseña a conectar con los demás, a tener éxito en la vida social, a iniciar nuevas amistades y a conservar y afianzar las que ya tenemos. Tras examinar las claves de la amistad, nos ofrece una serie de remedios para superar las rupturas. Amigos, la última obra del doctor Rojas, es una obra práctica y amena que nos ayuda a mejorar las relaciones sociales, a construir amistades más sólidas y a decir adiós a la soledad.

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Friendship is essential for human beings, and this book provides the keys to avoid loneliness, connect better with others, and preserve our friends.

Drawing from his professional and personal experience, Enrique Rojas teaches us how to connect with others, succeed in social life, start new friendships, and strengthen and maintain the ones we already have. After examining the foundations of friendship, he offers a series of remedies to overcome breakups. Amigos, Dr. Rojas’s latest work, is a practical and engaging book that helps us improve social relationships, build stronger friendships, and say goodbye to loneliness.

Si tu relación te hace sufrir, es que se trata de un amor tóxico.

Silvia Congost, una de las mayores expertas de España en dependencia emocional, te muestra en su nuevo libro cómo reconocer y liberarte de las relaciones que te hacen sufrir.

El amor no debería ser fuente de dolor, y quien te quiere no debería hacerte llorar. Sufrir no depende del amor, sino de la obsesión, del desgaste o del apego insano hacia una pareja. A partir de sus miles de horas de experiencia con pacientes incapaces de ver que estaban en una relación tóxica, Silvia nos enseña a identificar estas situaciones y a liberarnos de ellas. Muchas ideas sobre el amor nos son inculcadas desde la infancia y nos llevan a tomar malas decisiones en la adultez.

Para evitarlo, debemos deshacernos de los esquemas mentales que perpetúan las relaciones nocivas y establecer una nueva forma de relacionarnos con nosotros mismos para lograr así vínculos sanos y duraderos con nuestras parejas.

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If your relationship makes you suffer, it is a toxic love.

Silvia Congost, one of Spain’s leading experts in emotional dependency, shows you in her new book how to recognize and break free from relationships that cause pain.

Love should not be a source of suffering, and someone who loves you should not make you cry. Suffering does not come from love, but from obsession, exhaustion, or unhealthy attachment to a partner. Drawing from thousands of hours of experience with patients unable to see they were in toxic relationships, Silvia teaches us how to identify these situations and free ourselves from them. Certain ideas about love are instilled in us from childhood and lead us to make poor decisions as adults.

To prevent this, we must let go of the mental patterns that perpetuate harmful relationships and establish a new way of interacting with ourselves to build healthy and lasting bonds with our partners.

Una guía para dejar de resignarse y comenzar a elegirse.

Es una idea poco popular, pero cierta: el amor nunca es suficiente para que una relación sea plena y duradera. En la etapa de enamoramiento, da la impresión de que todo fluye: sentimos una conexión intensa, parecemos estar de acuerdo en todo lo importante y creemos haber encontrado a la persona perfecta. Pero cuando empezamos a conocernos, nos damos cuenta de que, por muy compatibles que seamos, tenemos muchas diferencias. Es entonces cuando surgen los conflictos. No porque el amor se haya ido, sino porque no estamos entrenados para tener conversaciones honestas y llegar a acuerdos que permitan que esas discrepancias puedan coexistir.

Nilda Chiaraviglio, psicoterapeuta clínica experta en parejas, con más de 4 millones de seguidores en redes sociales, te explica los cinco acuerdos indispensables para construir una relación sana. En sus más de veinte años de experiencia, ha corroborado que, si la pareja no coincide en estos puntos, está destinada al fracaso. Por ello, te comparte herramientas para generar estos convenios, entre las que se encuentran los lenguajes del amor, la percepción del compromiso, la intimidad, la fidelidad y las finanzas, a fin de crear una relación auténtica en la que quieras crecer y permanecer.

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A guide to stop resigning yourself and start choosing yourself.

It may be an unpopular idea, but it is true: love alone is never enough for a relationship to be full and lasting. In the early stage of falling in love, everything seems to flow: we feel an intense connection, we seem to agree on everything important, and we believe we have found the perfect person. But as we get to know each other, we realize that, no matter how compatible we are, we have many differences. That is when conflicts arise. Not because love has disappeared, but because we are not trained to have honest conversations and reach agreements so those differences can coexist.

Nilda Chiaraviglio, clinical psychotherapist and couples expert with more than 4 million social media followers, explains the five essential agreements for building a healthy relationship. In her more than twenty years of experience, she has confirmed that if a couple does not align on these points, the relationship is doomed to fail. That is why she shares tools to establish these agreements, including love languages, perception of commitment, intimacy, fidelity, and finances, in order to create an authentic relationship in which you want to grow and remain.

Un enfoque revolucionario para transformar tus relaciones y restaurar tu seguridad emocional.

¿Qué pasa cuando nuestros patrones de apego nos limitan o nos llevan a relaciones poco saludables? En Las nuevas reglas del apego, la reconocida neuropsicóloga clínica y forense Judy Ho nos ofrece un enfoque revolucionario para comprender y transformar nuestra manera de relacionarnos, permitiéndonos desarrollar un apego más seguro y satisfactorio.

Este libro presenta un análisis accesible y riguroso de la teoría del apego, explicando cómo se forman estos patrones en la infancia y cómo continúan influyendo en nuestras relaciones adultas. A través de ejemplos conmovedores y casos de su consulta, Judy Ho muestra cómo los estilos de apego inseguros pueden generar dinámicas problemáticas en la vida personal y profesional, y ofrece herramientas prácticas, basadas en la neurociencia, para repararlos. Con ejercicios transformadores y estrategias innovadoras, esta obra enseña a identificar nuestro estilo de apego, sanar heridas emocionales y fortalecer la autoestima, brindándonos los recursos para construir vínculos más sanos y equilibrados. Además, explora el impacto de nuestros estilos afectivos en la crianza, las relaciones de pareja y el ámbito laboral, integrando el apego en todos los aspectos de la vida.

Tanto para psicólogos y terapeutas como para cualquier persona interesada en el autoconocimiento, Las nuevas reglas del apego es una guía esencial para mejorar nuestras relaciones y lograr una mayor seguridad emocional. Con un enfoque empático y práctico, Judy Ho demuestra que, con las herramientas adecuadas, todos podemos transformar nuestra manera de vincularnos y alcanzar una vida más plena y satisfactoria.

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What happens when our attachment patterns limit us or lead us into unhealthy relationships? In The New Rules of Attachment, clinical and forensic neuropsychologist Judy Ho offers a revolutionary approach to understanding and transforming how we relate, helping readers develop a more secure and satisfying attachment style.

This book presents an accessible yet rigorous analysis of attachment theory, explaining how these patterns form in childhood and continue to influence adult relationships. Through moving examples and case studies, Judy Ho shows how insecure attachment styles can generate problematic dynamics in personal and professional life, and provides practical, neuroscience-based tools to repair them. With transformative exercises and innovative strategies, this work teaches how to identify your attachment style, heal emotional wounds, and strengthen self-esteem, giving you the resources to build healthier, more balanced bonds. It also explores the impact of attachment styles on parenting, couple relationships, and the workplace, integrating attachment across life domains.

For clinicians and anyone interested in self-knowledge, The New Rules of Attachment is an essential guide to improving relationships and achieving greater emotional security. With an empathetic, practical approach, Judy Ho demonstrates that, with the right tools, we can all transform how we connect and pursue a fuller, more satisfying life.

Drawing from her own tender and transformative journey of reunion with her birth family, lovingly supported by her adoptive parents, Monk creates a safe, affirming space for fellow adoptees to reflect, heal, and grow. With wisdom and warmth, she invites readers to explore themes of identity, loss, belonging, and self-discovery through insightful journaling prompts, evocative quotes, and intimate excerpts from her own guide. This beautifully designed resource is more than a guide, it’s a companion on the path toward integration, wholeness, and empowerment.

This journal supports adoptees ready to embrace their full story, tend to the wound of abandonment, while honoring the presence of both nature and nurture within.

This book will save your marriage and repair your broken relationship!

The Sex & Intimacy Repair Kit is not just another relationship book. It’s a hands-on, heart-opening guide to help couples repair emotional disconnection, reignite sexual desire, and create the kind of deeply satisfying partnership you both crave. Xanet Pailet’s first book, Living the Orgasmic Life, has become a #1 bestseller and is regarded as a classic in the category of relationships, love, and intimacy. 

What makes it different?

You won’t just read about what to do—you’ll feel like you’re sitting in a real coaching session. Throughout the book, you’ll step into intimate, behind-the-scenes moments with real couples—complete with guided exercises, actual dialogue, and the kinds of compassionate, no-BS insights you’d hear if you were working with Xanet one-on-one.

Inside, you’ll discover:

• How to talk about sex and feelings without shutting down or blowing up
•  Practical tools to repair trust and reconnect after years of distance or pain
• A new paradigm for sex that centers on mutual pleasure—not performance
• Erotic style frameworks to understand what really turns each of you on
• Simple, powerful intimacy rituals to bring joy and sensuality back into your daily life

From the Author 

In an age of distraction and disconnection, this book is a call back to what is real—to touch, tenderness, and the courageous act of opening our hearts again. It’s a guide for remembering the language of intimacy: how to listen with the body, speak with the heart, and love with presence. These pages offer a map for couples longing to repair, reawaken, and create a new story of connection built on trust, passion, and authenticity.

A playful guide to understanding the ways of “normal people”, The Autist’s Guide to the Galaxy flips our usual scripts about neurodiversity.

Following on from her internationally successful memoir, The Autists, Clara Törnvall has written a fun, comprehensive, and accessible explanation of neurotypical, or “normal”, behavior. Full of facts, tips, and tests, and developed with input from other autists, this book places the difficulties autists face in the context of a world built for the neurotypical majority. It will help neurodiverse people—and their families, friends, and loved ones—navigate this world, nurture stronger relationships, and thrive.

El amor no avisa ni pregunta; irrumpe como una tormenta que desordena todo: las certezas, las promesas y los planes.

En estas páginas, Daniel Habif y Anyha Ruiz comparten una historia real que se convierte en guía para quienes saben que el amor no se parece a las flores, sino al fuego: arde, transforma y deja huellas. Este libro une narrativa, espiritualidad y psicología para revelar que lo sagrado también necesita método. No ofrece promesas eternas, sino caminos posibles: acuerdos, límites y rituales que enseñan a cuidar sin poseer y a perdonar sin olvidar. Es, sobre todo, un manual de conciencia: instrucciones para no destruir a quien juraste amar y para transformar los ideales en acuerdos y los acuerdos en cultura. También es una guía para quienes aún no han encontrado a alguien, pero desean aprender a elegirse con madurez y a amarse antes de amar a otro.

Entre sus páginas laten las confesiones, errores, acuerdos, cicatrices y milagros que los autores han vivido en su camino. Es una liturgia de resistencia para los que aman con todo y, aún así, se equivocan; un mapa emocional que convierte el hambre en propósito y el dolor en aprendizaje. Porque el amor, que es divino, merece un plan humano que lo sostenga y un sistema que evolucione con cada etapa.

ENGLISH DESCRIPTION

Love does not warn or ask; it bursts in like a storm that unsettles everything: certainties, promises, and plans.

In these pages, Daniel Habif and Anyha Ruiz share a true story that becomes a guide for those who know that love does not resemble flowers, but fire: it burns, transforms, and leaves marks. This book blends narrative, spirituality, and psychology to reveal that the sacred also needs method. It does not offer eternal promises, but possible paths: agreements, boundaries, and rituals that teach how to care without possessing and forgive without forgetting. Above all, it is a manual of awareness: instructions not to destroy the one you swore to love, and to transform ideals into agreements and agreements into culture. It is also a guide for those who have not yet found someone, but wish to learn to choose themselves with maturity and to love themselves before loving another.

Within its pages beat the confessions, mistakes, agreements, scars, and miracles the authors have lived along their journey. It is a liturgy of resistance for those who love with all they have and still make mistakes; an emotional map that turns hunger into purpose and pain into learning.

Because love, which is divine, deserves a human plan to sustain it and a system that evolves with each stage.

• How to spot fake information and avoid online scams
• What a "digital tattoo" is, and how to avoid getting one
• The sneaky tricks scammers use to get your data
• What photos and information should never be shared
• And much more!

Offers support and guidance to tackle the realities of living in a bi-or multilingual family.

This essential guide for parents raising their children multilingually has proved an invaluable source of support and advice in the 20 years since its first publication. An English language teacher, independent researcher and mother of three more-or-less bilingual children, Suzanne Barron-Hauwert brings her professional and personal experience to this realistic yet inspirational guide to the One-Parent-One-Language approach to childhood bilingualism.

The book also contains the experiences of more than 100 families from around the world, reflecting a wide range of languages and cultures. This second edition has been updated to reflect the latest research on childhood language learning and use, and provides parents with suggestions for up-to-date and accessible resources and further reading. 

Vives en un mundo que no fue diseñado para ti. Un mundo donde se espera que te quedes quieto, en silencio y concentrado. Debido a la forma en que tu cerebro está configurado, a veces puedes sentir que estás fracasando en la vida. Pero no estás fracasando. Eres increíble.

Los autores de este libro, Kim y Penn Holderness, tienen una misión: cambiar la forma en que pensamos sobre el desafortunadamente llamado «trastorno por déficit de atención e hiperactividad». Y lo hacen mirándose al espejo, porque no solo han estudiado el TDAH, sino que lo viven: Penn fue diagnosticado con TDAH en la universidad.

A través de sus divertidas anécdotas y el conocimiento de médicos, investigadores y especialistas, Kim y Penn ofrecen consejos y explicaciones fáciles de entender, incluyendo:

• Cómo es realmente vivir con un cerebro con TDAH.
• Cómo enfrentar los desafíos del TDAH con una actitud positiva.
• Técnicas y herramientas específicas para potenciar tus fortalezas únicas.
• Extras divertidos como un bingo del TDAH, un homenaje a los shorts con bolsas y una visión de cómo sería el mundo si las personas con TDAH estuvieran al mando.

Confía en Penn: tener TDAH puede dar miedo, pero también trae consigo grandes ventajas, como creatividad, hiperconcentración y energía. Incluso podrías decir que es algo bastante genial.

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You live in a world that wasn’t designed for you. A world where you’re expected to sit still, stay quiet, and focus. Because of the way your brain is wired, you may sometimes feel like you’re failing at life. But you are not failing. You are awesome.

The authors of this book, Kim and Penn Holderness, have a mission: to change the way we think about the unfortunately named “attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder.” And they do it by looking in the mirror, because they haven’t just studied ADHD—they live it: Penn was diagnosed with ADHD in college.

Through their funny anecdotes and the insights of doctors, researchers, and specialists, Kim and Penn provide easy-to-understand advice and explanations, including:

• What it’s really like to live with an ADHD brain.
• How to face ADHD challenges with a positive attitude.
• Specific techniques and tools to harness your unique strengths.
• Fun extras like ADHD bingo, a tribute to shorts with pockets, and a vision of what the world would look like if people with ADHD were in charge.

Trust Penn: having ADHD can be scary, but it also comes with great advantages, like creativity, hyperfocus, and energy. You could even say it’s pretty awesome.

The rate of interracial marriage in the United States has steadily increased: One in six new marriages now crosses racial or ethnic lines. Yet these partnerships are not always embraced or even accepted by families, friends, and society. Within families, issues ranging from food and holiday traditions to parenting approaches and beliefs about gender roles sometimes must be negotiated between cultures. In a time of national division, questions of race and identity have become deeply fraught. The way these couples navigate differences is a model for how Americans, despite their differences, can come together.

This book—based on interviews with and surveys of hundreds of people and informed by the authors’ many decades of experience as therapists and researchers—explores how intermarried couples build lives together. People of varied backgrounds describe how they navigate a world where others wonder about their relationship, question the parentage of their children, and treat them differently from their partner based on their appearance. Spouses relate their experiences forming fulfilling relationships in the face of potential disapproval, and they speak candidly about the joys and challenges of raising mixed-race children. Many of these couples have strengthened their relationships by learning to communicate across cultural barriers, and they share strategies for overcoming misunderstandings. At once large-scale and intimate, this book offers practical advice and timely insight into the triumphs and struggles of love across lines of difference.

When young people have questions about a brother or sister with autism or Asperger's Syndrome, clear answers can be hard to find. Written by Eve Band , Ph.D., a clinical psychologist, this book gives voice to ten-year-old Emily's story: her questions about her brother, her search for answers about autism, and her exploration of her feelings as a sibling of a young man with autism. Told in her voice, Emily's story is as uplifting as it is filled with valuable information for parents and siblings, or any individual whose life is touched by a person with high-functioning autism or Asperger's Syndrome.

Helpful chapters include:

• language & communication
• the GFCF diet, special education law
• parenting issues
• teaching strategies
• and adult issues.

• Tony & Temple: Face to Face By Tony Attwood, Ph.D.
• Developing Proactive Strategies for Managing Problem Behaviors By Lori Ernsperger, Ph.D.
• Connecting with your Child through DIR By Lori Jeanne Peloquin, Ph.D.
• BIG FUN: Using Gymnastics to Improve Physical & Social Skills in Children with Autism By Gene Hurwin
• What Does it Take to do Inclusion of Children with Autism Well? Parts I & II By Shirley Cohen, Ph.D.
• Social Skills on the IEP By Catherine Faherty
• Extraordinary Parenting: The Power of Thoughts and Feelings in Reaching Children with Autism By Steven Wertz
• I’m Special: A Method to Introduce Children, Adolescents and Young Adults to their Autism Spectrum Disorder By Peter Vermeulen
  
   

Since the early ‘90s, Carol Gray’s world-famous Social Stories™ have helped thousands of children with autism spectrum disorders. This 15th Anniversary Edition of her best-selling book offers ready-to-use stories that parents and educators have depended on for years—with new sections added! Additions include how to most effectively use and apply the stories, how to improve the lives of younger children, and Social Stories™ for teens and adults with autism. Developed through years of experience, these strategically written stories explain social situations in ways children and adults with autism understand while teaching social skills needed to be successful at home, school, work, and in the community.

A Social Story™ accurately describes a context, skill, achievement, or concept according to 10 defining criteria. These criteria guide Story research, development, and implementation to ensure an overall patient and supportive quality, and a format, “voice”, content, and learning experience that is descriptive, meaningful, and physically, socially, and emotionally safe for the child, adolescent, or adult with autism. The criteria define what a Social Story™ is, and the process that researches, writes, and illustrates it.

Social Stories™ may be described as an effective and meaningful approach to support social understanding, but the ultimate and deeper goal is to empower children and older people by enhancing their understanding of social situations and social encounters in their lives, and thereby supporting their ability to be active participants in life’s routines and activities. The effective use of Social Stories™ goes even further—it allows practitioners and parents to build trusting relationships through their support. Ultimately, the overarching goal of Social Stories™ is this: to help people to be self-determined, confident and competent individuals.

Parents of children with autism or other special needs frequently struggle with toilet training their child. Toileting a child with special needs is more difficult because there are often additional challenges such as communication difficulties, sensory issues, behavioral concerns, resistance to change, inability to generalize a newly learned skill, and the need for routine.

Using traditional toilet training books and methods are not always helpful because the autism population does not think the same way a neurotypical child does. The child with autism may not care about pleasing parents or receiving verbal praise. Because there may be significant developmental delays, the toileting process may not be started until after the age of four. Using a diaper to eliminate has been the routine for several years and this can be hard to change. Children’s books to introducing toilet training may not be appropriate because the child is too big for a potty chair or using the potty chair then transitioning to the toilet becomes yet another change and obstacle in this process.

All of these concerns may feel insurmountable and overwhelming when making the decision to begin toilet training. Judith Coucouvanis has come to the rescue with her new book The Potty Journey: Guide to Toilet Training Children with Special Needs, Including Autism and Related Disorders that empowers parents and professionals with practical information to make this journey a success. I would recommend reading the book in its entirety first before starting toileting because Ms. Coucouvanis equips the reader with a plan and presents the overall picture for this process. She uses the concept of a journey/trip and all the things one would need to do to make the trip a successful one. It is these planning tips and manageable steps that make toileting “do-able”.

One of the biggest quandaries parents face is not knowing when to start toileting. Judy outlines considerations when to begin toileting in the second chapter. She discusses mental age which is not the same as chronological age, the ability to remain dry for 1 – 2 hours at a time, and being over the age of four when bodily functions are more mature. It is also important that you as the parent are emotionally ready for this commitment which takes several weeks, and that there are no additional life stressors such as a move, divorce, job change, or major illness.

One key to successful toileting is using a team approach. Everyone who spends time with that child should be involved in the toileting process. Children with autism don’t generalize from one situation to the next so for success to occur there has to be a consistent toileting routine and approach throughout the child’s day which may unfold in several places.

The author introduces the Daily Progress Record (DPR) in chapter 3 which is the foundation of the toileting process. She provides lots of examples and a template in the appendix. She teaches how to practice toileting, use rewards, and supports the child’s learning with visual examples. She dedicates two chapters to troubleshooting problems. The book is peppered with thoughts from parents and professionals who have gone through this journey. Their comments offer positive support and encouragement. The final chapter is dedicated for stories from those who have completed the toileting journey.

Ms.Coucouvanis also writes about creating independence with toileting – how to fade prompts and your presence in the bathroom. She also discusses bathroom use in other locations such as the school and public restrooms. The hidden curriculum rules for boys and girls public bathroom use are outlined. Most mothers are not aware of how different a men’s public bathroom is from a women’s.

There is a helpful appendix at the end which includes charts for determining toileting readiness, the Daily Progress Record, records for your team members (known as the travel crew), a checklist to prepare for this journey, suggested rewards, Sitting Practice Record, and a visual breakdown of the toileting steps.

The Potty Journey takes parents and professionals through the toileting journey which is a challenge but well worth the effort. Toileting with independence and confidence is a life-long skill; without this skill, a person’s choices are limited and they are dependent on someone else for one of their most basic needs.

In Autism Is the Future, Marlo Payne Thurman reveals how cognitive differences are the constructing pieces in understanding those with autism. Through her findings, she shows how those with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) constantly challenge assumptions about intelligence and measuring intelligence.

Thurman proposes that sensory and cognitive development have evolved together into a very different form of intelligence in those with ASD, and it should be viewed not as a disability but instead as a difference to be celebrated and followed.

Thurman began working with children diagnosed with ASD in 1986. With group home management and intensive ABA therapy in her early career, she developed a special interest in meeting the unique needs of those individuals who were asynchronously developed into the realms of the "ASD savant." Most recently, she completed a landmark study proposing an alternative sensory-cognitive difference theory based on her extensive discussions and interactions with diagnosed adults. This research was the foundation for this book.

A child’s sensory system affects their ability to learn, play, socialize and function. Maybe a child isn’t able to sit still in class because his shirt tag is bothering him, or isn’t able to play with other children because his balance is off. Maybe your child isn’t just a picky eater, it could be that his sensory system needs some special guidance and adjusting.

Britt Collins, MS,OTR/L and Jackie Linder-Olson, an occupational therapist and parent team, have organized and combined parenting information along with sensory integration methods, tips, and solutions. We’ve made it easy and fun and will help you avoid a lot of unnecessary battles between you and your child. It’s amazing how quickly our children adapt and the little adjustments that can make our days smoother. Beginning with your baby’s birth, Britt and Jackie walk parents through everyday situations and duties all the way through your child’s early stages of development through the first five years. They explain the underlying reasons beneath your child’s negative behaviors and the often simple fixes.

"Anyone browsing autism books might question that two authors could amass this many ideas and that all of them would be ‘great,’ but this book delivers.” — from the Foreword by Dr. Temple Grandin

Over 1800 try-it-now tips, eye-opening perspectives, and time-saving strategies abound in this revised edition of the 2004 multi-award-winning  book that has been read and reread again and again by hundreds of thousands of people in fourteen languages around the world. Readers can easily find explanations and solutions that speak to the diverse spectrum of developmental levels, learning styles, and abilities inherent in autistic children, at home, at school, and in the community.

Ideas are offered in six domains: Sensory Integration, Communication and Language, Behavior, Daily Living, Thinking Social, Being Social, and Teachers and Learners. The Table of Contents details more than 330 subjects, making it easy to quickly pinpoint needed information.

• Accessible ideas that don’t require expensive devices or hours of time to implement.
• Relatable ideas and solutions to situations that most parents, educators, and/or family members will recognize.
• Functional ideas that help prepare the autistic child for a meaningful adulthood.

Awards for 1001 Great Ideas:

• Winner of the Eric Hoffer Book Award for Legacy Nonfiction
• Winner of the American Legacy Book Award for Education/Academic
• Winner of the American Legacy Book Award for Parenting and Relationships
• Silver medal, Independent Publishers Book Awards
• Gold award, Mom’s Choice Awards
• Finalist, American Legacy Book Awards, Cross-genre Nonfiction
• Teachers Choice Award, Learning magazine

Autism is old and unruly. It’s been a part of us since we first left handprints on cave walls 40,000 year­­s ago. AUTISM AND US covers a long-stretch view of its neurological history and how society has judged it.

With quotes from old medical records, folk-tale beliefs, and Victorian literature, the book conjures up the 19^th century­ mix of ignorance, cruelty, fumbling knowledge, and surprising love that led to the first medical recognition of autism as a social disorder. From that medically significant recognition has grown our present day neurological and cognitive understanding. 

Eustacia Cutler, autism expert and mother of Temple Grandin, delivers a colorful and reliable account of the pioneers it has taken for autism to gain understanding and acceptance in families, neighborhoods, schools and job markets.

NAPPA Award Winner! Mom's Choice Award Winner!

Many parents are not sure of what to say and do to help their children improve their social interactions.

This book helps open the door of communication between parent and child by addressing 100 social rules for home, school, and the community. Using simple, easy-to-follow rules covering topics such as body language, manners, feelings, and more, this book aims to make students' lives easier and more successful by outlining specific ways to interact with others on a daily basis. Foreword by Ann Gordon, PhD, BCET.

Winner of the IPBA Gold Medal for Nonfiction Series (with Ten Things Your Student with Autism Wishes You Knew) and Winner of the Grand Prize for Instruction and Insight and First Place in Psychology, Chanticleer International Book Awards.

One of the autism community’s most beloved classics, Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew has informed, delighted, and guided millions of families and professionals the world over since its first edition was published in 2005.

A child’s voice leads into each chapter, offering a one-of-a-kind exploration into how ten core characteristics of autism affect our children’s perceptions and reactions to the surrounding physical, sensory and social environments. This revised and updated third edition sharpens the focus on these basic aspects while expanding on how our own perspectives shape the life of our child and ourselves, today, tomorrow, and for years to come. An all-new section illuminates the surprising breadth of our power of choice and outlines potent strategies for strong decision-making in every situation.

Every parent, teacher, social worker, therapist, and physician should have this succinct and informative book in their back pocket. Framed with both humor and compassion, the book lists the top ten characteristics that help illuminate—not define—children with autism. Ellen's personal experiences as a parent, an autism columnist, and a contributor to numerous parenting magazines coalesce to create this guide for anyone with someone on the autism spectrum in their life. (There is also an edition of this book available in Spanish)

Other awards include:

• Grand Prize Short List, Eric Hoffer Book Awards
• First place in Psychology, Chanticleer International Instruction and Insight Awards
• First Runner-up – Health, Eric Hoffer Book Awards
• Montaigne Medal finalist, Eric Hoffer Book Awards
• American Book Fest Best Book Awards finalist
• National Indie Excellence Book Awards finalist
• Da Vinci Eye Award finalist, Eric Hoffer Book Awards
• Wishing Shelf Book Awards (UK) finalist

Once a diagnosis of autism is made, a myriad of questions arises. Why is this happening? What can I do? How will I cope? What will the future bring? Will I ever smile again?

A roadmap is needed, a handbook to refer to when all seems overwhelming. The priorities are to begin the healing process and to start treatment. The way to ensure success is to begin with the end goals in mind. It is remarkable how things fall into place once a vision of the future is formulated – a productive, upstanding, and most important, happy adult!

The Autism Parent Handbook walks parents through the steps of early intervention by demonstrating ways to achieve the most optimal outcomes. We address the following:

Wherever a parent is on their parenting journey, and whatever age the child is, now is the time to look forward and plant seeds for the future, beginning with the end in mind. Our shared goal is to honor the glory that is in all of us, and to enhance each child’s journey towards their fullest potential. If you are now confused and overwhelmed, you need a compassionate and optimistic guide for the early years and beyond. Where to start? Right here.

In Working While Autistic, Wendela Whitcomb Marsh delves into the challenges and triumphs autistic individuals face in the workplace. From acing the initial interview to navigating workplace politics, this is the handbook you need to get your career in gear. Employment can be a major challenge for autistic adults, and many are unemployed or underemployed. They may be highly skilled, motivated, and eager to work, but finding and keeping a job seems out of reach. Why is it so difficult?

• How to find the right career path
• Six Characters in Search of Employment (fictional autistic folk who illustrate the strategies in each chapter)
  
• Goalsetting
• Honing your interview skills
• Messages from autistic mentors (actually autistic workers share their wisdom and lived experience)
  
• And much more!

Dr. Marsh is an award-winning author, sought-after speaker, and founder of Adult Autism Assessment Services, which specializes in late-diagnosed autistic adults, who often struggle to find recognition and acceptance for themselves without the need to mask.

Working while Autistic is also a valuable resource for employers.

Dr. Tony Attwood and Craig Evans are pleased to introduce "Ask Dr. Tony," their second book together. The book is a compilation of fifty episodes of the Autism Hangout question-and-answer program video series in which Dr. Tony Attwood directly addresses the most pressing questions of those touched by autism. It also includes bonus sections of questions and answers from specific groups such as parents, teachers, public servants, social workers, and more. This book is an invaluable resource to keep helpful information present and available to the public. Craig and Dr. Tony's mutual goal? Thriving with autism!

This inspiring and informative classic only gets better!

Temple’s primary mission is to help people with ASD and ADHD tap into their hidden abilities. Temple chose contributors from a wide variety of skill sets to show how this can be done. Each individual tells their own story, in their own words, about their lives. From relationships, bullying, making eye contact, honing social skills, and eventual careers, these stories have something everyone can learn from.

Different ... Not Less shows how, with work, each of the contributors:

If you’ve read the first edition, you’ve only gotten half the story. Temple Grandin and these amazing contributors proudly display their growth as they take us along on their journeys.

Helpful chapters include:

• What Does It Mean for You to Be Autistic?
• Our Brains
• Accepting Your Autism
• Being Different
• Time Alone and Time with Others
• Mistakes
•  Friends
• God in Your Life
• Seeing Autism as a Challenge

• To Tell or Not to Tell
• Taking the First Step
• Section 504 Regulations
• Basic Advocacy 101
• Developing the IEP: Goals and Objectives Specially Designed Instruction
• Supports for Personnel: Supports for Students
• Designing a Social Skills Program
• Teasing and Self Esteem
• What to Do with Problem Behaviors
• What to Do When the Team Can Not Agree

Dr. Temple Grandin discusses the real issues that parents, teachers, and kids face every day. Here is a concise handbook that illustrates what Temple has found to work in the field of education. Topics include:

• The importance of early intervention

• Teaching for different types of thinking

• Developing talent

• Motivating students

• Keeping high expectations

• And much more!

In these helpful pages, Dr. Grandin offers dos and don’ts, practical strategies, and try-it-now tips, all based on her insider perspective and extensive research. Interestingly, she argues that education for kids on the autism spectrum must focus on their overlooked strengths to foster their unique contributions to the world.

As Publishers Weekly noted "For educators or parents of autistic children, this will be a valuable resource."

Learn how to stop a meltdown! This book offers tried-and-true solutions to minimize and circumvent the often frightening circumstances that surround the cycle of meltdowns, not only for the child with autism, but others in the environment as well.

A highly practical and user-friendly resource, Autism and Difficult Moments describes the three-stage cycle of a meltdown and identifies effective, evidence-based strategies to use at each stage. In addition, the book outlines how to prevent the occurrence of meltdowns through instruction, interpretation, and coaching. The author emphasizes the importance of utilizing systematic instruction and teachable moments before and after a meltdown. Dr. Myles also notes that meltdowns are not intentional.

Readers will appreciate the practical steps that are given to navigate meltdowns as successfully as possible.

Behavior Solutions for the Home is a tool for parents whose children’s behaviors are impeding their daily life. Once they see a particular behavior, parents can quickly look up an in-the-moment solution and read more about what could be causing that behavior—and more importantly, how to overcome it. This helpful book is intended to provide general, practical solutions for busy (and often overwhelmed) parents who can benefit from a handy reference guide to help them address common behaviors at home and in the community. This book is a must-have for every parent and caregiver working with a child on the autism spectrum!

Diagnosed with autism at age fifty, Anita Lesko always knew something was different—but never let that stop her. In her incredible story, she describes how she went from an uncoordinated “misfit” kid to the successful and thriving adult she is today!

Lesko shares ALL her secrets to success, including:

And most importantly, patience and perseverance.

Some of the highlights of Anita’s life story include:

Through the framework of her impressive life, Lesko proves that you can do anything you set your mind to—and teaches you how to do it yourself.

What Really Works for Children with Autism aims to be a guide for anyone who has a child with autism, as well as for educators and caregivers. Many difficulties for these children arise due to a lack of knowledge about exactly what autism is and what its consequences are. This book provides detailed information about these issues, including:

• What the 10 most important needs of autistic children are.
• Understanding their sometimes unexpected or difficult behavior.
• How to support them as a parent, teacher, caregiver, or therapist.

When you get to know the specific characteristics, abilities, challenges and needs of a child with autism better, you will see their behavior in a different light. Knowing how their brain works and what their real needs are will give you a deeper understanding of why things can be difficult for them and you. What Really Works for Children with Autism also helps you to develop strategies that will create positive moments at home or in the classroom, so that autistic children can develop meaningful relationships with the important people in their lives.

As mentioned, the authors note that autistic children have ten major needs:

1. Being understood
2. Clarity
3. Predictability
4. Autonomy
5. Connection
6. Good agreements and rules
7. Positive self-esteem
8. Contentment
9. Meaning
10. Encouragement

The author, Tosha Rollins, states, “As a mother of two young adults on the autism spectrum, I wish I had been better educated about autism. My children inspired my becoming a licensed professional counselor." She started the Autism in Action podcast and has created resources like Autismology for families like hers.

Temple Grandin's window into the subjective experience of autism is of value to all of us who hope to gain a deeper understanding of the human mind by exploring the ways in which it responds to the world's challenges. — The Washington Times.

In this updated and expanded sixth edition of The Way I See It, Dr. Temple Grandin gets to the REAL issues of autism—the ones parents, teachers, and autistic individuals face every day. Temple offers helpful do's and don’ts, practical strategies, and try-it-now tips all based on her insider perspective and scientific research.

Topics include:

• Alternative vs. conventional medicine
• How to avoid getting trapped by labels
• The importance of early educational intervention
• How to control video gaming and screen time
• Exploring careers and applying talents
• And much more!

Dr. Grandin has packed a wealth of knowledge into this book, which serves as an excellent reference resource for topics related to autism. This handy reference book contains much of the information from the three smaller books in the series, Autism and Education, Autism and Adolescence, and Autism, Sensory and Behavior, all in one accessible place.

Whether you’re searching for something specific or reading cover-to-cover, The Way I See It is required reading for everyone whose life is touched by autism. The sixth edition contains a new section on autism and sensory challenges, as well as updated research throughout.

The teenage years are a time when being social is the number one priority for kids. But for kids with Asperger's who have acute social challenges, these years can be the most difficult, confusing time in their lives.

Enter J. D. Kraus, a young man who has been there, done that! He offers practical advice to his peers so they can get the most out of middle school and high school, both academically and socially. From sensory sensitivity to awkwardness, dating to driving, he tackles it all! Parents and teachers will love seeing life through J. D.'s eyes, plus "Notes to Parents" sections offer great advice for caregivers and educators alike.

Inside you'll find chapters on:

And more!

If you or someone you know has been diagnosed with a pervasive developmental disorder (autism, Asperger's Syndrome, Rett Syndrome, Childhood Disintegrative Disorder, or PDD-NOS), this book is for you.

In an informative style, weaved with personal stories from parents, the book covers various topics, including:

• Getting a diagnosis (including preparing for a diagnostic interview in a medical, psychiatric, or school setting, with descriptions of all diagnostic tests and checklists/questions used by professionals)
• Treatment options (such as medications/supplements, sensory integration, occupational/physical/speech therapy, behavior modification, floor time, and more
• Coping with diagnosis and treatment (including emotions and support systems, insurance, and educational plans).

Out-of-Sync Success Stories, part of the "Out-of-Sync" series, focuses on children, teens, and adults with Sensory Processing Differences (SPD) whose unique sensitivities have made the world they inhabit a better place.

In this book you will meet:

• Little Daniel, whose musicality was able to connect him to his class,
• Young adult Sadie with her empathy for animals, using her abilities to start a career caring for them,
• Wise David with his determination to make office buildings comfortable and safe,
• And many more…

Through real-life success stories, this book aims to inspire those with sensory differences, as well as their family, teachers and other professionals who support them.

The stories within these pages show that neurodiversity benefits us all.

Help Your Picky Eaters Expand Their Food Choices!

Broccoli Boot Camp presents clearly written, commonsense behavioral interventions to successfully expand diet variety and preferences for healthy foods. It begins with the simple premise that when children are encouraged to taste and consume tiny portions of new foods (using the authors’ system), they learn to accept and enjoy them as part of their regular diets.

Other topics include:

• Difficult behaviors encountered at mealtime
• Nutritional deficiencies seen in selective eaters
• Food allergies
• And much more!

The second edition of Broccoli Boot Camp contains updated and revised content that addresses selective eating patterns across a wider range of children, including those diagnosed with issues such as avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder and pediatric feeding disorder.

There are two new chapters. Chapter 18 focuses specifically on fading or stopping a plan, and Chapter 21 is a guide for clinicians and professionals.

Using compelling, real-life case studies, Broccoli Boot Camp gives parents the tools they need to promote healthy eating for their child, as well as improving the family mealtime experience!

Autism has long been considered a boys' condition, but there is more to this story. The truth is, autism looks different in women and girls. They're much better at "pretending to be normal" by masking their autistic characteristics.

How can we look behind the mask to recognize autism, when it has been so well camouflaged? Recognizing Autism in Women and Girls: When It Has Been Hidden Well provides the perspective needed to see how autism manifests in gendered ways, allowing for a more accurate diagnosis.

In addition to describing each point in the diagnostic manual to include feminine presentations, Dr. Marsh has created “Seven Fictional Female Figures” who've been misdiagnosed because they also display symptoms of other similar conditions. She describes their behaviors, both obvious and hidden, from early childhood to adulthood, and demonstrates how these behaviors meet diagnostic criteria for autism spectrum disorder. The "Behind the Mask" section provides helpful questions to ask during the autism assessment process to allow the professional to recognize autism, even when it has been successfully masked. In addition, each chapter contains "In Her Own Words," written by autistic women who describe their personal journeys from masking to diagnosis, and what it means to them. Being recognized at last for who they truly are frees autistic women to stop hiding behind a mask and begin opening doors to success.

The key to helping your ASD child may be right in your pocket!

Help your child to learn new skills and overcome existing barriers quickly and independently, regardless of age or ability. Video modeling is an effective method of teaching that uses recorded videos and technology. With repetitive and consistent exposure to video models, success stories include:

• A child who would not brush his teeth
• A teenager being acclimated to a new work environment
• A four-year-old who has not developed proper play-skills
• A child who would not engage with her teachers in class

And so much more!

Learn how, using only your smartphone, to create educational and beneficial material to help learners with autism increase independence, facilitate learning, and improve quality of life.

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Winner of a 2008 Teachers’ Choice Award! Many children, especially those with developmental delays, have trouble understanding or expressing their feelings. This can result in difficulty with anger management. Listing possible responses to situations—and the likely outcome of each one—allows the child to make informed decisions about which responses to choose (e.g., walking away vs. hitting). This book provides a guide for caregivers along with a workbook portion that asks children to identify situations that trigger their anger, and helps them find appropriate ways to respond.

Helpful topics include:

Educate school age children and build their self-esteem so they can make informed choices! STARS 2 is an adapted version of the original STARS guidebook that is focused on school-aged children. The STARS 2 model concentrates on four areas: Understanding Relationships, Social Skills Training, Sexual Awareness, and Assertiveness with the goals of promoting positive sexuality and preventing sexual abuse. Assessment tools help identify the strengths and needs of each individual, and then the activities can be catered to address specific needs.

• Was That the Exit to Normal?"
• Rules of the Road
• Labels - You Gotta Love 'Em
• To School or Not to School

Key Features:

• Presents neuroscience of sensory modulation in a manner that is comprehensible and applicable for the young reader
• Language that is engaging and entertaining
• Innovative concepts such as a "brain security team" to describe complex neural concepts.

Parents are their child's best teachers.

National Parenting Publications Award Winner

Step by step, Rules and Tools for Parents of Children With Autism Spectrum and Related Disorders will guide parents throughout their journey toward understanding their child and solving behavior challenges.

Parents can use one, some, or all of the 119 rules and tools presented in their Parenting Toolbox, to help their child reach their unlimited potential. Using checklists, forms, and other practical tools, parents can also develop their child’s personal MAP – Master Action Plan to help their child succeed in school!

If you have an out-of-sync grandchild and are looking for enjoyable interactions, this book is for you. It is part of the Out-of-Sync Series, intended to help parents, teachers, relatives, and professionals support kids with sensory processing differences. Gold Award Recipient, Mom's Choice Awards!

Good Times with Out-of-Sync Grandkids is a guide for making memories. It includes more than fifty activities that the fictional Grammy and Pops have enjoyed over the years with their fictional grandchildren, Carrie, Darwin, and Edward. You may have met the kids in The Out-of-Sync Family: A Story about Sensory Differences (Sensory World, 2023).

The characters are imaginary, but their experiences are real, coming from the author’s life as a child, babysitter, mother, preschool teacher, special education consultant, Cub Scout leader, and grandparent. This book may trigger happy memories of what you, as a child, loved to do with your grandparents and may help you reanimate those shared experiences, adapting them to match your grandchild’s age, interest, and sensory differences.

Activities in the book address:

• Showing overresponsivity—or underresponsivity—to touch and movement
• Craving—or avoiding—sensory stimulation
• Constantly—or hardly ever—on the go
• Confusion by what he or she hears, sees, feels, tastes, and smells
• Lacking energy/being limp
• Tripping on air, being clumsy, breaking things
• Picky or messy eating
• Being difficult to understand when speaking
• Acting socially awkward
• Being loving and kind, but anxious and lacking self-confidence

Preparing Kids for the Real World and Their Best Selves

Parents, teachers, therapists, and anyone who cares about a child or teen on the autism spectrum need this essential roadmap to prepare our youth for being successful adults in today’s world.

Since the first edition of The Loving Push, the prevalence rate of children diagnosed as autistic has only continued to rise. Greater numbers of kids are transitioning into adulthood with a spectrum label than ever before. Researchers around the world churn out studies, many aimed at learning more about the factors that help autistic children learn and gain skills. Community awareness of autism has risen, and companies and colleges are taking notice.

Best-selling author, autism advocate, and animal science professor Dr. Temple Grandin joins psychologist and autism specialist Dr. Debra Moore in spelling out which steps you can take to restore your child’s hope and motivation―and what you must avoid. Eight life stories told by people on the autism spectrum, including chapters on subjects like how to get kids off their computers, how to build on their strengths and get back to caring about their lives, and how to find a path to a successful, meaningful life make this a "must read book!"

The greatest gifts we can give a child are those that help them grow into their best self. Parents and professionals alike strive to guide young people in developing a sense of self-worth and functioning in line with their highest capabilities. No matter what specific challenges a child may face, success is reaching the level of independence and engagement in the world they are realistically capable of achieving is the top priority. This book is our guide.