-
Plants of the pacific coast
This long-awaited successor to the bestselling Plants of Coastal British Columbia and the Pacific Northwest features over 700 trees, shrubs, wildflowers, ferns, horsetails and lycopods of the north Pacific coast of North America. The region, stretching from southeast Alaska to northwest Oregon, i...
Read MoreRegular price $29.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $29.95Unit price per -
Post-nonmonogamy and beyond
An exploration of what happens when nonmonogamous people decide to no longer be nonmonogamous—how they got there, what it means to them and what might happen next. Nonmonogamy has exploded in popularity over recent decades, spawning dozens of how-to guides and countless media articles. But quietl...
Read MoreRegular price $9.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $9.95Unit price per -
The pegging book
A practical guide to anal sex with a strap-on dildo, approached with humor and informed by the authors' experience as sex educators. In the beginning, there was no name for it. The act was lumped in with general anal sex and general strap-on sex. But perhaps seeing a hole that needed filling, an ...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per -
The fundamentals of erotic dominance
A fierce, lucid meditation on the ethics and ecstasies of power. What are we doing when we erotically dominate another? Most kink resources focus on technique, safety and consent while overlooking less tangible elements that are equally important in defining the shape and quality of a scene. Info...
Read MoreRegular price $14.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $14.95Unit price per -
Nonmonogamy and betrayal
A reflection on the many manifestations of broken trust in nonmonogamous relationships, and how to heal from them. Nonmonogamy can assume many shapes, none of which can claim to be a “safe” model of intimacy. The jet-setting passport paramour who fits the needs of many far-flung lovers into a sin...
Read MoreRegular price $11.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $11.95Unit price per -
Nonmonogamy and teaching
A practical examination of teaching while nonmonogamous, and how parents and administrators can support polyamorous educators. Educators are often overworked, underpaid and at the crosshairs of every cultural debate. Teachers dedicate themselves to creating safe, nurturing environments for studen...
Read MoreRegular price $9.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $9.95Unit price per -
Polywise
From the author of the best-selling Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy, a next-level guide for people looking to build secure attachment in nonmonogamous relationships. As polyamory continues to make its way into the mainstream, more and more people are exploring consensual...
Read MoreRegular price $24.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $24.95Unit price per -
Claiming the b in lgbt
An insightful guidebook on bisexual identity interwoven with fearless testimony of bisexual activities striving for self-realization in a society built on the reductive axis of “gay/straight.” Even as the broader LGBT community enjoys political and societal advances in North America, the bisexual...
Read MoreRegular price $24.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $24.95Unit price per -
The new more than two
A manual for loving justly in a complex, power-laden world. A decade after the celebrated but controversial 2014 book, The New More Than Two is More Than Two for the post-#MeToo era. The entirely rewritten The New More Than Two represents a complete conceptual reorientation focused on care, mutu...
Read MoreRegular price $24.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $24.95Unit price per -
Nonmonogamy and sex work
An intersectional examination of the ways in which nonmonogamy can break down traditional power structures to be particularly empowering to marginalized people. What does nonmonogamy allow other than the freedom to love whoever you wish to love? For Zara Shah, nonmonogamy allows greater freedom o...
Read MoreRegular price $9.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $9.95Unit price per -
The polysecure workbook
A practical workbook based on the principles of attachment theory in nonmonogamous relationships. The Polysecure Workbook encourages examination of any attachment challenges you may have experienced in your opening up process and offers insights into how to build secure relationships. Through pra...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per -
Carry on
An exploration of the messy but liberating process of defining and decentring inner narratives of shame, fear and regret for one’s own queer identity. Queerphobic and transphobic messaging can arrive from nearly any direction, and once queer and trans people are exposed to the fear, disgust and j...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per -
More than two, second edition
A modern topology of nonmonogamy’s many possibilities—and consequences. “Can you love more than one person?” A lot of conversations about nonmonogamy start this way. When we discuss “opening” relationships, contemplate whether we want to be exclusive with our partners, or introduce multiple partn...
Read MoreRegular price $34.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $34.95Unit price per -
Nonmonogamy and queer inclusivity
A practical guide to help make nonmonogamous events and communities more inclusive of all genders and sexualities. Heteronormativity and misconceptions around sexuality and gender expression persist even in nonmonogamous communities. Queer and gender-diverse people can find it intimidating to nav...
Read MoreRegular price $11.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $11.95Unit price per -
Polysecure and the polysecure workbook (bundle)
Jessica Fern extends attachment theory into the realm of consensual nonmonogamy. In Polysecure, she expands our understanding of how emotional experiences can influence our relationships and sets out six specific strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships...
Read MoreRegular price $34.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $34.95Unit price per -
Brotherhood is a constant possibility
A deeply personal, provocative portrait of how race, culture and sexuality intersect to reshape what it means to be an Asian man in North America today. What does it mean to be an Asian man in North America? In this timely and insightful memoir, Ryan Cho unpacks ideas about masculinity and Asian...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per -
A good kid's guide to rebellion
An empowering roadmap for teens ready to question the rules, trust their instincts and build a life of their own. What does it really mean to think for yourself in a world full of rules, expectations, and misinformation? A Good Kid’s Guide to Rebellion is a supportive roadmap for teenagers questi...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per -
The monster under the bed
A practical guide to navigating sex and relationships for people with depression and their partners. Almost everyone has had some interaction with depression. Whether it’s you, a family member, a friend, or a partner who is affected, depression has the potential to touch us all. Even so, many of ...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per -
Nonmonogamy and neurodiversity
A practical guide that explores how nonmonogamous relationships do not belong exclusively to the neurotypicals, but to us all. Too often, the neurodivergent community is marginalized, de-sexualized or patronized. Neurodivergent people are often not seen as part of the romantic or sexual landscape...
Read MoreRegular price $9.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $9.95Unit price per -
Polysecure
A practical translation of the principles of attachment theory to nonmonogamous relationships. Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if, like many people, you’re striving for secure, happy attachments...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per -
Better halves
A recovering drug addict details the arduous but liberating process of forging a recommitted marriage’s path to healing and balance. The odds of salvaging your marriage in the wake of addiction may seem fairly bleak. Couples who struggle with substance abuse in one or both partners have a divorce...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per -
A whore’s manifesto
An anthology of poetry, essays and artwork by sex workers.
Regular price $12.99Regular price $0.00 Sale price $12.99Unit price per -
Love's not color blind
A polyamorous black man explores the intersections of racism and polyamory and their impact on people of color navigating an already misunderstood lifestyle. The issues that make monogamous dating daunting for people of color—shaming and exclusion by white partners, being fetishized, having reali...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per -
A polyamory devotional
Digestible snippets of advice and thought-provoking prompts on ethical nonmonogamy for every day of the year. Polyamory can be fun, sweet and even liberating. But ethical nonmonogamy can also take work. In A Polyamory Devotional, relationship coach Evita “Lavitaloca” Sawyers streamlines the vast ...
Read MoreRegular price $29.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $29.95Unit price per -
Ask yourself
Practical exercises exploring the role of consent in confronting power structures in day-to-day life. What does “consent culture” mean to you? Navigating the complex, never-ending work of culture change can be overwhelming at times. Whether you’re exploring what consent means in your personal lif...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per -
Nonmonogamy and happiness
A philosophical exploration of what happiness is and the search for meaning in nonmonogamous relationships. The love story we’re all familiar with ends with “ … and they lived happily ever after.” But how often do we hear a nonmonogamous love story with that ending? In all kinds of contexts, non...
Read MoreRegular price $9.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $9.95Unit price per -
Love rebels
An exploration of how to balance activism and relationships without burning out. Balancing a devotion to activism with personal relationships can be incredibly difficult. Kitty Stryker shares her experience as an activist, street medic and relationship educator to help others pursue the important...
Read MoreRegular price $24.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $24.95Unit price per -
Transforming the shame triangle
A practical, accessible primer on using parts work to transform shame and self-criticism to authenticity and integrity.
Regular price $24.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $24.95Unit price per -
Ask me about polyamory
A hilarious and touching comic about polyamory, queer, and genderqueer issues from Tikva Wolf. If your relationships or your gender are unconventional, you’ll find useful advice and plenty of laughs in this compilation of the wildly popular webcomic Kimchi Cuddles. Quirky, endearing and charmingl...
Read MoreRegular price $14.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $14.95Unit price per -
The polyamory breakup book
A practical guide to navigating and surviving breakups in nonmonogamous relationships. Polyamory is not always easy. With multiple partners often come more complex relationships to navigate. This practical guide looks at the common causes of polyamorous breakups, identifies strategies to avoid en...
Read MoreRegular price $24.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $24.95Unit price per -
Nonmonogamy and group dynamics
A practical guide to navigating romantic groups with respect and compassion for oneself and others. Romantic groups can face many of the same challenges as friend groups or professional circles, but these more common group structures are far better understood in the wider culture. Romantic groups...
Read MoreRegular price $11.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $11.95Unit price per -
The hearts of being polysecure
As featured in Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy, HEARTS is a practical framework to cultivating secure attachment in multiple relationships. Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. W...
Read MoreRegular price $7.99Regular price $0.00 Sale price $7.99Unit price per -
It's called "polyamory"
A primer on explaining to friends, family, and coworkers what consensual nonmonogamy means, and what living it means for you. Even in progressive families and communities, people who practice nonmonogamy are susceptible to misinformation and accusations of moral and emotional failings. Facing thi...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per -
Ask
Kitty Stryker presents a collection of essays exploring the role of consent in confronting power structures in day-to-day life. Have you ever heard the phrase “It’s easier to ask forgiveness than permission?” Violating consent isn’t limited to sexual relationships, and our discussions around cons...
Read MoreRegular price $14.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $14.95Unit price per -
The complete polysecure bundle
A practical toolkit for building secure attachments in polyamorous relationships, including two books and a poster. How can we create secure, happy attachments with multiple partners? This set of two books and a fold-out poster is a practical toolkit for building secure attachments in polyamory. ...
Read MoreRegular price $39.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $39.95Unit price per -
Nonmonogamy and defying a paradigm
An examination of how we live in a mononormative paradigm and how nonmonogamous people can defy the status quo. Exploring nonmonogamy can require us to shift our worldview and deconstruct what we’ve been taught about relationship dynamics. However, it is difficult to defy paradigms while also exi...
Read MoreRegular price $11.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $11.95Unit price per -
Playing fair
A practical guide to nonmonogamy for men into women, helping them to achieve their nonmonogamous dreams. Good news! You can leave the constraints of monogamy behind, and step into the delightful possibilities of polyamory and open relationships. By understanding and practicing nonmonogamy, you ca...
Read MoreRegular price $17.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $17.95Unit price per -
In it together
A practical, insightful and much-needed guidebook for people with depression and those who love them. Millions of people worldwide are coping with depression. Whether it’s you, a family member, a friend or a partner—odds are depression affects your life. Even so, many of us don’t know what to do ...
Read MoreRegular price $24.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $24.95Unit price per -
Say more
Practical exercises to help teenagers explore their understanding of consent in daily life. Talking about consent can feel overwhelming, especially for young people who may be navigating their own boundaries for the first time. In Say More, consent culture activist Kitty Stryker guides teenagers ...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per -
Nonmonogamy and death
A practical guide to navigating death in nonmonogamous relationships, informed by first-hand experience. Rarely does the question of death come up in discussions of nonmonogamy. But whether it’s sudden or expected, nonmonogamous people must face death like anyone else—as well as its consequence...
Read MoreRegular price $9.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $9.95Unit price per -
The art of looking back
A former artist’s model and muse reclaims her image and voice, dismantling the male gaze that once framed her. At 23, Theresa Kishkan met an artist who became obsessed with her. She was young, she was flattered, and the situation quickly overwhelmed her. He drew and painted her for a few months, ...
Read MoreRegular price $24.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $24.95Unit price per -
How do i sexy?
A practical and insightful consideration of what it means to be sexual as a trans, queer person from activist Mx. Nillin Lore. What even is “sexy,” and how do you do it? A tough question for trans and nonbinary queers struggling to find their sexual selves in a landscape rife with misogynistic, t...
Read MoreRegular price $19.95Regular price $0.00 Sale price $19.95Unit price per
We're sorry. An error has occurred
Please cancel or retry.
